Think I might want a divorce

[samoth]

I always love how the other person is always at fault in divorces. Relationships are always a two way street.

Credited fucking response.

Looking at society for the past 20, 50, 100 years... the individual no longer requires others in order to exist. Groups and family units are fundamentally changing.

Just as there are advantages to such empowerment and self-reliance, so too are there costs.

 

[wootoom]

To be honest, i can't stand when people joke around in these threads...divorce is one of the toughest things to endure in life...it has taken so much work just to get over this...Divorce with the kids has to be the hardest thing to deal with in life...maybe im just a pussy but it took alot of tears and years off my life, but in retrospect you come out a stronger individual....you learn SO much about yourself. I love everyone here for there support in what i've went through. You are all like family to me. Literally.

 

[OMEGA]

I always love how the other person is always at fault in divorces. Relationships are always a two way street.

lol so true

 

[puddlemonkey]

reality divorced Omega a long time ago

 

[OMEGA]

I'm not sure I could ever forgive a hypothetical husband of cheating sexually....I'd just be so crushed, and it would do so much damage to my trust and self esteem, I don't know how I could get over it.

Nor should you try to get over it or forgive that transgression.

When a man or a women has another in the grace of Love, makes a home with them , them then chooses to defile the innocent that loved them, they deserve nothing. The have shown themselves to be fickle and not worthy of kin ship

 

[mrplunkey]

To be honest, i can't stand when people joke around in these threads...divorce is one of the toughest things to endure in life...it has taken so much work just to get over this...Divorce with the kids has to be the hardest thing to deal with in life...maybe im just a pussy but it took alot of tears and years off my life, but in retrospect you come out a stronger individual....you learn SO much about yourself. I love everyone here for there support in what i've went through. You are all like family to me. Literally.

You'll reach a point where you are on the other side and it won't bother you so much. I used an absolutely incredible lawyer and he told me point-blank that it would take two years from the time the final judgment is signed.

Believe it or not, there will be a point where you'll joke about it as well.

 

[wootoom]

You'll reach a point where you are on the other side and it won't bother you so much. I used an absolutely incredible lawyer and he told me point-blank that it would take two years from the time the final judgment is signed.

Believe it or not, there will be a point where you'll joke about it as well.

Honestly, its nothing to do with the money, good lawyers blah blah blah im over that...its the seperation of a family..the kids have to deal with this more than anyone..it hurts alot, i will definetly never joke about this situation...the only thing i will ever want to get is closure.

 

[javaguru]

Yes. And really truly make sure you've done EVERYTHING you can or you'll have it nagging at you for the rest of your life.

+1, especially if you have children, my sister's divorce has split the family into factions and all the kids are grown professionals.

 

[-SD-]

The problem with divorce when theyre kids is the damage/situation is permanent. Adults can eventually see the situation for what it is and move on. Kids may be forever impacted emotionally and psychologically forever, since they are kids when it all happens.

 

[puddlemonkey]

The problem with divorce when theyre kids is the damage/situation is permanent. Adults can eventually see the situation for what it is and move on. Kids may be forever impacted emotionally and psychologically forever, since they are kids when it all happens.

My parents are divorced and I'm totally fine.