Think I might want a divorce

[-SD-]

I always love how the other person is always at fault in divorces. Relationships are always a two way street.

 

[wootoom]

I always love how the other person is always at fault in divorces. Relationships are always a two way street.

So true bro, it takes 2, to make a relationship work...no matter how hard one person tries it wont work unless they are both committed to a marriage

 

[digimon7068]

Anyone here been through a divorce before? I seriously don't know what to do. I'll explain what is going on "after" I see some people reply. I don't want to type my life away and then not have anyone reply. LOL

ok, numbnuts! you got 6 pages of advice and no one knows your situation...time to spill the beans...so the real "counseling" can begin

 

[nangiggles]

Nef I agree with you that one would expect for your spouse to not fall in love or put themselves in that situation, but theory and practice do not go hand in hand.... not everyone is as loyal as they seem or even as they'd like to be....

 

[ceo]

what about just going balls deep and not falling in love??

Nef????

Balls Deep?????

 

[billfred]

dude this is all i could read

Exactly

 

[puddlemonkey]

If I've learned anything it's that all people are liars and all people will fail you. A-L-L. There is no perfect man or woman out there no matter how perfect they seem when you marry them. It is what it is. That's just my two cents.

nah, my brother and sister in law have been together for 22 years and they're only in their 30's. They still do everything together, on yet another vacation as we speak. I don't think I've seen them argue since they were teens.


I stand by what I've said for years, there are two things that will break love/marriage. A lack of money and/or children. Couples can have other problems in their relationship, infidelity etc, but it's usually tied in with one of those two things.

 

[nefertiti]

Nef I agree with you that one would expect for your spouse to not fall in love or put themselves in that situation, but theory and practice do not go hand in hand.... not everyone is as loyal as they seem or even as they'd like to be....

Well, I'm not saying it can't or won't happen. expectation and prediction are two different things. When I say expectation, I am talking about setting a standard of conduct. Like terms of a contract. Doesn't sound very romantic, but that's the best way I can put it.

I'm not sure I could ever forgive a hypothetical husband of cheating sexually....I'd just be so crushed, and it would do so much damage to my trust and self esteem, I don't know how I could get over it. But I'd be more likely to forgive that than falling in love. That's such a deeper betrayal to me.

 

[nefertiti]

Oh, and ceo, I guess I answered your Q in my post lol.

 

[ceo]

I'm not sure I could ever forgive a hypothetical husband of cheating sexually....I'd just be so crushed, and it would do so much damage to my trust and self esteem, I don't know how I could get over it. But I'd be more likely to forgive that than falling in love. That's such a deeper betrayal to me.

so just going balls deep is pretty much cool then!

nice!