Think I might want a divorce

[shirlene29]

been divorced twice...I actually don't recommend an attorney per se'
go with mediation instead..its cheaper and keeps it a little more civil I think...if mediation doesn't work out you can always default to an attorney at that point


good luck

 

[cw801]

Yep....I agree with Shirlene........I made it through mine, even with custody on the line and having to work out child support, without any lawyers on either side. We used a mediator when it got a little rough, but that was the only help we needed.

 

[PhoenixS]

LOLZ I have 4 times, what you wanna know?

None of them could put up with you huh?

 

[ortiz34]

Divorced
remarried and happy

 

[Rachel...lol]

been divorced twice...I actually don't recommend an attorney per se'
go with mediation instead..its cheaper and keeps it a little more civil I think...if mediation doesn't work out you can always default to an attorney at that point


good luck

I didn't know you were divorced twice. hm

 

[OMEGA]

Army Vet I am not the cheating type either. the worst thing I did was make out and touch once whenn I had a gf, I could ever do i again.
I say this cus cheating if hidden I could see could hold a bad marriage together( yes I know thats horrible)

but I could never cheat

 

[binö]

Army Vet I am not the cheating type either. the worst thing I did was make out and touch once whenn I had a gf, I could ever do i again.
I say this cus cheating if hidden I could see could hold a bad marriage together( yes I know thats horrible)

in some rare instances i could see/heard of that working, even with the other spouse knowing about it.
as long as it wasn't thrown in their faces.

 

[OMEGA]

in some rare instances i could see/heard of that working, even with the other spouse knowing about it.
as long as it wasn't thrown in their faces.

Let me clarify my unusual statement.

My father ran many high end restaurants in SF.
I was the matri'de (sp?) at my fathers place.
I would see professional business men and politicians come in with mistresses, only later in the month to bring their wives.

I observed and noticed in these older cheaters, that they treated their wives Great and their Family... but had a mistress to address some type of need or something "lost" that they found.

The thing that made me feel they were not complete scum is that they treated their wives great, and their kids. They also treated the mistresses with respect.

I still could never cheat , but I can see in rare cases how for some its something they need to patchwork their happiness.

 

[needtogetarmy]

Army Vet I am not the cheating type either. the worst thing I did was make out and touch once whenn I had a gf, I could ever do i again.
I say this cus cheating if hidden I could see could hold a bad marriage together( yes I know thats horrible)

I'm a horndog but in the end I need that emotional attachment. If I cheat and find the right person why not just get divorced.

I am counting down the days.

 

[broonzy]

I want a divorce and I'm not even Married.