The Whores Vs Real Man Debate

[Sinistar]

why are women called sluts while men are patted on the back?

i can remeber in high school, when some girl had been around, guys would say shit like 'her pussy must be as big around as this bowl ' ect.

is the bottom line on this that men think women who fuck are damaged/used up?

and ladies, lets be honest: if your man drops a large number in your lap [number of ppl hes bedded that is lmao. not a 12 inch single] what do you think? skanky? whorish? knows what to do?

ive observed, from a distance, that women whos men have been around are happy that they have been.

any chance of finding the real reasons, without falling back on male-female equality thing? hasnt worked to this point.

 

[Sinistar]

something offensive i didnt mean to say?

 

[TEXgrl]

its the typical double standard. i hate that its ok for guys to go around screwing everything that isn't nailed down, but have a girl have a healthy sexual appetite, and she's labeled a whore forever. i also get all kinds of pissed off when men make excuses for cheating by saying its in their nature not to be monogomous. to borrow your phrase, "for fucks sake" does no one have to be accountable for their actions anymore?

if i were single now, it probably wouldn't bother me if a guy had been with alot of girls prior to me, but it would bother me if he was still currently running around putting notches on his belt. i know a few guys like that right now, and honestly, it kinda oogs me out. so my answer is: in the past, it would be ok for a guy to have alot of lovers, but present, he needs to be narrowing the field down a little

 

[TEXgrl]

"oogs me out"???

grosses me out to think of all the skanky hoes he's screwing. is that better?

 

[drgoodbody]

yup...

its a double standard, but sorry, its unlikely to change any time soon.

Interesting twist on this... MrsG and I have a son and a daughter, and we have discussed many times whether or not the rules (dating rules, going out rules, etc) would be different for them and I have to say, I'm still wrestling with this - the double standard issue.

MrsG, just for the record, is for a single set of rules for all - she's right, but my male hetero brain still hasn't quite accepted it.

Yeah, yeah, men are pigs...

DrG

 

[Frackal]

grosses me out to think of all the skanky hoes he's screwing. is that better?

didnt you just say it was wrong to call someone with a healthy sexual appetite a hoe?

 

[Night Fly]

Re: yup...

its a double standard, but sorry, its unlikely to change any time soon.

Interesting twist on this... MrsG and I have a son and a daughter, and we have discussed many times whether or not the rules (dating rules, going out rules, etc) would be different for them and I have to say, I'm still wrestling with this - the double standard issue.

MrsG, just for the record, is for a single set of rules for all - she's right, but my male hetero brain still hasn't quite accepted it.

Yeah, yeah, men are pigs...

DrG

Plus, being a man, you know exactly how a lot of men are going to treat your daughter. I'm sure it turns your stomach to think that some guy may be screwing her screaming "Who's Your Daddy?" lol...

I agree...there is definitely a double standard...and I also agree that it will not change for a long time...if ever. It has to be something that I guess women will always have to accept...

 

[jubei]

Women who have had several sexual experiences with different ppl are not whores, they are normal women. Women that have several different sexual experiences while you are dating them are whores.

 

[Night Fly]

Women who have had several sexual experiences with different ppl are not whores, they are normal women. Women that have several different sexual experiences while you are dating them are whores.

You know...that's actually quite a logical way to look at it. I think we [women] would be naive to think that all [or even most] men could begin to think like that, though.

 

[Friscochick]

Re: Re: yup...

Plus, being a man, you know exactly how a lot of men are going to treat your daughter. I'm sure it turns your stomach to think that some guy may be screwing her screaming "Who's Your Daddy?" lol...

LMAO!!

Personally, i dont have a problem with my men having more patners. It's better because i like to be taught new things too.. I try not to think about if he's had a threesome before, or if he's cum on another girls face LOL.. You only hurt yourself that way. Ive also devirginized a guy before.. No fun no fun at all.

As far as the slut deal, well i believe this will never change, but things ARE better than they used to be, so that's a step forward