Why don't u bring it up too him? If its that big of a problem don't you think you should talk about it instead of just dumping him? If you tell him it's a big enough problem that your thinking of leaving him and then he doesn't fix it then you have your answer
You're turning her down or she is turning you down?
I'm gonna do my best not to initiate anymore. It sucks that I have to play games, I would like to just be myself, but it's really hurtful when he doesn't want to.