I fell into the same trap SK did. If I remember correctly we even ended up with a similiar look.
I have since learned my lesson. I took a 5 week break and during that time I ate good foods, but in 'normal' amounts. I lost a few inches off my waist, and felt better for it. I had let it get up to 36/8 inches. Now that doesn't seem too big for a nearly 6'4 guy, but when I am very lean, I can get into a 30/31 no problem at all, so that was a BIG increase.
Now I have cut out all the bad stuff. No cakes, no sweets. I only eat icecream once a week, a small bowl. The rest of the time it's quality carbs (and not in crazy amounts like before), and tons of protein. I even mix most of my shakes in water now, except for the bedtime one which is now mixed in half milk, half water.
Tp is my base from now on as well. No more mega bloat from the eth and cyp!