Citrus, I'm sure there's a few women out there that think you're the biggest asshole alive. In fact, I'm willing to bet that that there's one or two girls who absolutly hate your guts.
I'm also sure that there's a few who think you're a great guy, and maybe even one or two who think you're really special.
So dude, it cuts both ways. I know plently of girls, some of whom I can't stand, and some of whom I really admire. Just becuase you THINK you've got someone all figured out, doesns't mean that you have. And you certainly can't apply the same label to a whole group of people, just because they share genetalia.
It's all about perception bud.