Swinging...

[the-short-one]

i'm a little fuzzy on the whole swinger thing...

is that when you swap partners, or do you get together with another couple and all do it together?

 

[EnderJE]

to end this nonsense - it depends on the person. Some people can, some cant have sex without love

Yeah, but I still don't get the choice. Then again, I don't understand why people drink tea either.

 

[EnderJE]

i'm a little fuzzy on the whole swinger thing...

is that when you swap partners, or do you get together with another couple and all do it together?

Either or.

Think of it this way...you'd get laid more often. Maybe even 4 and 1/3!

 

[Cutiebaby]

When what about hookers? Or porn stars?

what about them???? how about they get paid money for sex, obviously they will do it.....some people do swing...i for one will never do it.it is the one thing that me and my husband share together....obviously we share money,home,car,kids,food,etc! but i could share all that with my sister,friend,roomate, whom ever....being in a close intimate relationship is IMO one on one......the one thing that we do share with our hearts involved.

 

[foxxie]

Swingers are basically people who have problem with their insecurity so they feel the need to other people wanting them and giving them attention beside their partner. Much more like Cheating.

Swingers is like the definiton of cheating, friends with benefit, threesome+,one night stand etc.


I am NOT into cheating, one night stand, friends with benefit, threesome+ and foremost swingers. Never done it and never would have. Again Dont be in a relationship if your just going to cheat with your partner at the first place.

 

[deco]

fuck double standard. It's there, I ain't no hippy to pretend the world is perfect. Theres no way to achieve equality even if you number people and make them look all the same.

 

[mrplunkey]

If a woman enjoys playing with another woman, but wants to commit herself to a man, then a F-M-F think makes complete sense. It also teases the guy's "spread your seed" instinct, so it kinda all works out.

I personally would never have any interest in watching/hearing/finding-out that my SO had sex with another man. Nor would I be interested in playing with a guy.

I wouldn't, however, try to force a F-M-F encounter. Unless my SO was all over wanting to do it, I wouldn't bother bringing it up.

 

[EnderJE]

Swingers are basically people who have problem with their insecurity so they feel the need to other people wanting them and giving them attention beside their partner.

Great generalizations...

 

[Devastation]

i don't see anything wrong with it if both partners feel comfortable

 

[shoestring]

what about them???? how about they get paid money for sex, obviously they will do it.....some people do swing...i for one will never do it.it is the one thing that me and my husband share together....obviously we share money,home,car,kids,food,etc! but i could share all that with my sister,friend,roomate, whom ever....being in a close intimate relationship is IMO one on one......the one thing that we do share with our hearts involved.

Good wife!