look up "swingers club" on the internet. Most major cities have them. My wife and I were thinking about going, I have not built up the nerve yet. I have found that if you are looking for a single Bi-chick, they can be hard to find. One of my wifes friends is supposed to come over next week, I think she has an idea why, hopefully she will be into it. I bought a shit load of sex toys on saturday. Wish me luck !