steroids/diet vs girlfriends/drinking

[xariesj2x]

How do you guys handle your strict diets and not drinking while having a girl friend... its like say your invited over her house by her parents to eat... you know there going to offer you sweets and deserts... and most family's don't eat only 40 carbs a day... Also when you go out clubbing with your girl you get drinks and stuff.. I know on juice = no drinking or not sappost to? Wouldn't it bother you to always refuse when they offer dessert or drinks at parties? etc?

I also never tried the stuff yet I plan on making the move some point but how can you have sex if your nads are gone?or empty lol.. I mean aren't you shooting blanks or do you just still get boners with no balls and no need for prot then lol I cant figure it out bros help me out here haha

I had some time on my hands I had to ask haha

 

[needtogetaas]

How do you guys handle your strict diets and not drinking while having a girl friend... its like say your invited over her house by her parents to eat... you know there going to offer you sweets and deserts... and most family's don't eat only 40 carbs a day... Also when you go out clubbing with your girl you get drinks and stuff.. I know on juice = no drinking or not sappost to? Wouldn't it bother you to always refuse when they offer dessert or drinks at parties? etc?

I also never tried the stuff yet I plan on making the move some point but how can you have sex if your nads are gone?or empty lol.. I mean aren't you shooting blanks or do you just still get boners with no balls and no need for prot then lol I cant figure it out bros help me out here haha

I had some time on my hands I had to ask haha

When you make it a life stile others around you will be well aware of it. If its something you really want and are forward about it in all you do. People tend to take notice. You only have to say no and give them a reason why one time. If you make it clear thats how you run your life and its not going to change they will never ask you again. If they do they have no respect for you. You should not be around people that have no respect for you.

I am a alcoholic and thats how it works for me. The same thing can be applied
to any aspect of your life stile.

 

[xariesj2x]

Never thought of it that way

 

[DJ_UFO]

I agree with needto. People should have respect for you. Not because you are in a group of 5 people eating 500 gr of carbs in one dinner means you are "the weird"; it is you're lifestyle and you body and you take care of it as you want. However with family issues is almost impossible...or depends on the family. While I was married, during the 6 years, ALWAYS had so many problems with her family for the same issue...I remember once we went with her family to Disney...we got up at around 7, got a massive breakfast, and their plan was to eat again like at 8 in the night!! I was like WTF! please somebody help me!!! I tried bringing protein bars in a backpack and the fight was with my ex "you are weird" "you are selfish" "you cannot make little sacrifices" "you are always a problem" ....

Now is a different story. I'm hanging out with different hotties, party animals, and again the same problem...when I'm out with them, there's no food, a lot of drinks, but this time is up to me and nobody criticize me.

 

[Trendsetter21]

How do you guys handle your strict diets and not drinking while having a girl friend... its like say your invited over her house by her parents to eat... you know there going to offer you sweets and deserts... and most family's don't eat only 40 carbs a day... Also when you go out clubbing with your girl you get drinks and stuff.. I know on juice = no drinking or not sappost to? Wouldn't it bother you to always refuse when they offer dessert or drinks at parties? etc?

I also never tried the stuff yet I plan on making the move some point but how can you have sex if your nads are gone?or empty lol.. I mean aren't you shooting blanks or do you just still get boners with no balls and no need for prot then lol I cant figure it out bros help me out here haha

I had some time on my hands I had to ask haha

I don't take steroids but I also don't drink or eat sweets often. My friends are big time partiers and drink all the time. When I go out with them it gets annoying when they buy me a beer and a shot and I'm like no thanks, they know I won't drink it but still try. Its easy for me to turn down alcohol cuz I hate how I feel the next day, even after a few beers. If I drink anything it will be a glass of wine or a dark beer cuz they have more antioxidants in them. At family gatherings they pretty much know I don't eat desert, and if offered I say no I don't like sweets and they usually leave me alone. As for the nads thing I have no idea, but U should always wear protection...........too many diseases out there that I would rather not get.

 

[Advisor_x]

Probably not old enough to make your own decisions...........

 

[xariesj2x]

no im 20 I just wanted to see how people felt cuz I did feal in a circle of 5 people and cant find a girlfriend for this life style...

 

[captainahole]

no im 20 I just wanted to see how people felt cuz I did feal in a circle of 5 people and cant find a girlfriend for this life style...

masterbation is an alternative. Buy a dog if you want someone to talk to.

You will likely find a girl that appreciates this style of living in the gym. surprise.

 

[xariesj2x]

haha my friend hit on a girl in the gym then her bf met up with her and he was in the middle of trying to get her digits pretty much was funny as shit lol.

 

[iceman7]

My girl helps me get out of sticky situations that would require me to consume something I shouldn't. She makes excuses for me and helps me stay on track so its great.

I have no problems with keeping the girlfriend happy.. she has a drink or two when we go out while I eat healthy one way or another.

What becomes an issue is when I have to attend social events ... When I just started, everyone would force me to eat. But now they've given up.

 

[D_Mac]

get a girl that supports and will help you. if she isnt willing to maintain a hrealthy lkifestyle with u then she will end up fat anyway so ditch her. My wife goes on diets with me, not cause she needs to (she sheds weight much easier than me) but because she has really good will power and when we do it together she keeps me from cheating the diet. When we go to her parents we just make sure there is a healthy alternative, and if there isn't then we swing by Wendy's on the way and order Chili and chicken breasts for me, or a salad with no crutons or dressing. There is always a healthy alternative, you just gotta plan ahead and get creative

 

[LiquidPhire]

It's a never ending struggle and when your girlfriend loves to eat, makes it hard. (no she's not a fatty)

 

[Tatyana]

I must admit there are times I have sacrificed my social life as I have been dieting for a comp, and I KNOW that sometimes the temptation is too great.

My friends and family are great at supporting me though, and if they do see me with something like a cookie/biscuit, they always comment "you are not going to eat that now are you!'

I also try to have a cheat meal at least once a week, and I do time them so that I can do something social.

If I am honest, there is no way I would get involved with anyone unless they also had a very active lifestyle, or understood the whole BBing thing, and also wouldn't be all grossed out when I hit the single digits for bodyfat (know it is only temporary, you don't need that extra stress 'you are too skinny' when you are dieting).

 

[theslime]

My girlfriend is an athlete, we can support each other when we diet. Its ideal IMO but it can also mean we are both in a bad mood...