So sad....

[Smurfy]

ok well good luck.

 

[Pamela]

Don't ever sit around and wait on a guy.

They will break your heart if you do..
Take it from someone with that experience.

 

[Raina]

My thought is generally (though contradicted a few times in my past in moments of insanity) that it's better to be alone than with being with someone who doesn't treat you right. At minimum, it's fair to expect another person to give the same percentage of effort you're going to put in. You deserve someone who will treat you like a queen and make you feel wonderful.

 

[Seashell]

did anyone see yesterday's oprah episode? there was a guy from sex and the city on there who recently wrote a book about women and how we often sit around waiting on men or wondering if they are interested in us. if you have to second guess yourself or ask yourself "do they or dont they?" , then the answer is

"he's just not that into you"

move on girl., you deserve to be the center of someone's world. not a side dish

Great post!

I've loved that line ever since it first came up on Sex & The City, and it's so very true. If you have to ask...

As women, sometimes we don't do each other favours when trying to console one another.. saying things like "maybe he's afraid of commitment", "maybe he needs more time".. when the bottom line is, he's not that into you. Why waste time trying to make it work with that person, when there's so many others out there?

 

[flexygrl]

Great post!

I've loved that line ever since it first came up on Sex & The City, and it's so very true. If you have to ask...

As women, sometimes we don't do each other favours when trying to console one another.. saying things like "maybe he's afraid of commitment", "maybe he needs more time".. when the bottom line is, he's not that into you. Why waste time trying to make it work with that person, when there's so many others out there?

I completely agree...


Honestly, I was very sad when I found out that guy was married. But, I would never want a man like that in my life. He's MARRIED but still willing to go for a drink with me. It made me sad cause I started to feel, well, why not me? Then, I realized why not me, cause I don't need him in my life. I deserve better.


The other guy...

Well, we did go out. But just as it was before, he's a complete flake. He doesn't know what he wants and I refuse to waste my time on anyone like that. I know what i want. I have plenty of girlfriends and do not need a guy as a friend, thank you very much.

Turns out he contacted me because he had gotten a little typsy. Typical...

So, I asked him to NEVER contact me again. On to the next chapter.

Oh and btw, I'm not actively looking for ANYONE. I've resigned myself to being alone and I'm cool with that.

 

[Seashell]

I completely agree...


Honestly, I was very sad when I found out that guy was married. But, I would never want a man like that in my life. He's MARRIED but still willing to go for a drink with me. It made me sad cause I started to feel, well, why not me? Then, I realized why not me, cause I don't need him in my life. I deserve better.


The other guy...

Well, we did go out. But just as it was before, he's a complete flake. He doesn't know what he wants and I refuse to waste my time on anyone like that. I know what i want. I have plenty of girlfriends and do not need a guy as a friend, thank you very much.

Turns out he contacted me because he had gotten a little typsy. Typical...

So, I asked him to NEVER contact me again. On to the next chapter.

Oh and btw, I'm not actively looking for ANYONE. I've resigned myself to being alone and I'm cool with that.

Good for you Flexy! Sounds like you have the right attitude.

I've been doing my own thing for over a year now, and I don't mind at all. It takes a bit of getting used to when you first come out of a serious relationship, but now I love it. No stupid drama, no games. I date, but I won't put up with any BS.