So sad....

[flexygrl]

Debated about posting this....

Over the summer I met this guy. He was perfect, physically, finanically, but emotionally he was the biggest a-hole I ever met in my life. I gave him soooo many chances hopeing things would work out then mysteriously he vanished...


Weeks went by and occasionally I would email him. He would always reply back, it was polite. We made plans to get coffee soon...

Today, I followed up...he's seriously dating someone. Get this though, he said he would still meet me for a drink.

I know he isn't the type of guy that would be right for me, but my heart sank....

oh well....

 

[Sassy69]

Debated about posting this....

but emotionally he was the biggest a-hole I ever met in my life.
I know he isn't the type of guy that would be right for me, but my heart sank....

oh well....

oh well?? First, what comes around goes around. Second, that guy would be the biggest anchor around your neck. You would spend more time letting him just make you feel worse & worse. People like that are emotional black holes and they will suck the life out of you.

So. I personally think you might want to thank him for giving you a better life by staying out it!

 

[Smurfy]

did anyone see yesterday's oprah episode? there was a guy from sex and the city on there who recently wrote a book about women and how we often sit around waiting on men or wondering if they are interested in us. if you have to second guess yourself or ask yourself "do they or dont they?" , then the answer is

"he's just not that into you"

move on girl., you deserve to be the center of someone's world. not a side dish

 

[jenscats5]

did anyone see yesterday's oprah episode? there was a guy from sex and the city on there who recently wrote a book about women and how we often sit around waiting on men or wondering if they are interested in us. if you have to second guess yourself or ask yourself "do they or dont they?" , then the answer is

"he's just not that into you"

move on girl., you deserve to be the center of someone's world. not a side dish

Excellent words!!

It's better to be alone than to SETTLE with someone who doesn't make you #1........ Don't be so hard on yourself....

 

[Smurfy]

hell yeah Jenz. i mean, why waste your time with someone who you describe as an asshole? doesnt make sense.

another line from that Oprah episode goes like this:

"dont waste the pretty"

youre pretty. dont waste it on someone who cant appreciate the pretty.

 

[flexygrl]

hell yeah Jenz. i mean, why waste your time with someone who you describe as an asshole? doesnt make sense.

another line from that Oprah episode goes like this:

"dont waste the pretty"

youre pretty. dont waste it on someone who cant appreciate the pretty.

LOL! You guys are great!!! Yes, I am familiar with the episode. I didn't see it, but my friend told me about me...

Funny thing though. Last night I was contacted by a "ghost". A guy that I met when I first left my ex-husband instant messaged me yesterday. This guy and I hit it off right away and we had an awesome time and then suddenly it just went sour. I would still think of him from time to time though. Well apparently he must think of me too. We are going out tomorrow. : )

 

[jenscats5]

LOL! You guys are great!!! Yes, I am familiar with the episode. I didn't see it, but my friend told me about me...

Funny thing though. Last night I was contacted by a "ghost". A guy that I met when I first left my ex-husband instant messaged me yesterday. This guy and I hit it off right away and we had an awesome time and then suddenly it just went sour. I would still think of him from time to time though. Well apparently he must think of me too. We are going out tomorrow. : )

You go girl!! Be yourself -- if the guy doesn't appreciate you for who & WHAT you are then he is NOT worth YOU!! Also, as someone who was in a situation similar to yours once, once you are comfortable with yourself and enjoy being by YOURSELF and don't NEED someone to complete YOU -- then that special someone will come along..... Be patient -- You are worth it!!

And have fun on your date!!

 

[flexygrl]

You go girl!! Be yourself -- if the guy doesn't appreciate you for who & WHAT you are then he is NOT worth YOU!! Also, as someone who was in a situation similar to yours once, once you are comfortable with yourself and enjoy being by YOURSELF and don't NEED someone to complete YOU -- then that special someone will come along..... Be patient -- You are worth it!!

And have fun on your date!!

Jen,

I completely agree with this! Finally, almost 8 months later, I am finally there. It's okay to be home alone on the weekends...it's okay to go to a movie alone...no one has the right to treat me like shit...

LOL! It didn't take me THAT long...plus in the process I became soooo much closer to my girlfriends and family. So even though I'm "alone", I'm not really alone...

 

[Smurfy]

what happened with this guy that it suddenly went sour? thats a red flag to me.

 

[flexygrl]

what happened with this guy that it suddenly went sour? thats a red flag to me.

Yes, it is a red flag...to me too. These things I'll share eventually. I just want to see how it'll be on Saturday. I'll keep you all posted. : )