If I'm hard-up, I'll admit that I'm one pretty animalistic, insensitive son-of-a-bitch. If it's been a couple of days, and I've wandered around with a hard-on (especially if she knows I have), I'm not going to woo her with some cuddly lovey-dovey stuff. That's pretty much the equivalent of begging for sex IMO, and homey don't play that.
Once I get past hard-up tho, I don't mind something a little more romantic if I want more frequent sex. Assuming that I'm out of the red-line area on my hard-up-for-sex tachometer, I don't mind initiating through intimacy, playfullnes, and/or erotic behavior.