hey jackindiabox.... i dont go calling you gay cause you often check out pics of guys in the members pics area (i did a search on your posts) cause i dont think it matters much if you like guys, girls, whatever.... i am mostly straight but have done 3 ways too....its all good and all fun...as long as you are safe and no one is getting hurt, there is no prob...only prob is dudes who try to make an "issue" about a non issue cause they are not comfortable with there own sexuallity and scared that they might have some attraction to the same sex... who cares! nobody! lighten up and go get laid bro!