Should I feel guilty?

[monica15]

OKay ladies....tell me what you think:
I am 21, live in Houston, Tx... going to college full time, working, and coaching soccer.
My fiance' is 27, lives in Philadelphia, Pa.... a full time attorney.
Obviously, Im struggling with money and I cannot afford to pay for every single flight, etc.... well he is always offering to get me a flight up to Pa. Should i feel guilty? He's paid for the majority of flights already. Working part time on a minimum wage job doesnt pay much! I just feel bad. What do you think?
Thanks girls! - Monica

 

[momsgettinfit]

OKay ladies....tell me what you think:
I am 21, live in Houston, Tx... going to college full time, working, and coaching soccer.
My fiance' is 27, lives in Philadelphia, Pa.... a full time attorney.
Obviously, Im struggling with money and I cannot afford to pay for every single flight, etc.... well he is always offering to get me a flight up to Pa. Should i feel guilty? He's paid for the majority of flights already. Working part time on a minimum wage job doesnt pay much! I just feel bad. What do you think?
Thanks girls! - Monica

I don't think you should. If you can't afford it you can't afford it. He's an attorney and that means he's struggled in school with finances. He loves you and wants to see you, if he's got the money to get you the tickets let him.

 

[SoKlueles]

No, it seems he knows that you are struggling and he will get you to him at any cost so just enjoy it and dont feel a bit guilty

 

[annabelletx]

don't feel guilty, him offering to pay is a way of showing his love for you. he knows he makes more than you and wants to be able to see you. hope everything works out for yall.

nice to see another houston girl

 

[Celia]

OKay ladies....tell me what you think:
I am 21, live in Houston, Tx... going to college full time, working, and coaching soccer.
My fiance' is 27, lives in Philadelphia, Pa.... a full time attorney.
Obviously, Im struggling with money and I cannot afford to pay for every single flight, etc.... well he is always offering to get me a flight up to Pa. Should i feel guilty? He's paid for the majority of flights already. Working part time on a minimum wage job doesnt pay much! I just feel bad. What do you think?
Thanks girls! - Monica

If he loves you then there is no problem in using the money to meet the man you love. Just enjoy it and forget about it ...

 

[krissy]

You should only feel guilty if you are using him for the money that he spends, if you really care about each other, that is what relationships are all about. Being there for the other person and if the only way that you can be there is by him paying for a plane ticket, there should be no doubt in your mind. You should accept and have a great time and remember that he does this to be with you, but maybe ask him to come to see you , that way, he is spending his money on himself.

 

[heatherrae]

krissy is completely on point. Nothing to feel bad about here.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Why would someone accept a ticket to see someone they did NOT want to see? It is Philly not the Bahamas LOL.

He makes far more money and I surmize is intelligent enough to allocate his money responsibly - In other words, I dont think that he is going into debt over your airfare. He would like to see you. It goes without say that he pays the fare. I dont understand the question honestly.

 

[Tomer]

hmnn. I don't really like it when guys i date are always paying..

don't feel guilty though.. its up to you