Should FitFossil take AAS?

[MS]

"If it's just a matter of initiation, how does it bother one to not get what one doesn't want in
the first place? Is it mainly a concern about the relationship?"

I like this question makedah. I was pondering this the other day when a guy was complaining (on another board) about his loss of libido coming off cycle. His comment was something along the lines of "so I guess there's no point in looking for a girlfriend now until things return to normal". This was a BIG deal to him and I'm thinking "so what's the problem.....you didn't have a girlfriend anyway even when you were on cycle and your drive was good. Does he just miss jerking off in the shower, or what???" Seems to me the problems people (especially women) associate with lack of libido are mainly fear of social stigma, loss of someone's "love" etc....rather than anything else. It's just a head game, and replacing test to normal or even high-normal levels is no guarantee that things will be fine again. Except for their socialization, humans are just like our pet cats and dogs that we neuter.......we're quite capable of being happy without any sex drive and can even live long and healthy lives without it if it weren't for the social/relationship pressures.

Anyway fitfossil, give the gel a try and report back to us with your results pretty please!

 

[rainbow22]

sex drive to MS

what have you got against sex? its a wonderful expression of two peoples love for one another.

 

[VeggieLifterChick]

That was funny.

 

[MS]

"what have you got against sex? its a wonderful expression of two peoples love for one another."


That's just lovely Rainbow22. I was really referring to folks (like the guy I mentioned) who has no one to share this lovely expression with in the first place, yet he is still stressed out because he has no sex drive. That's just pure peer pressure insanity. Also (though I'm sure it doesn't apply to the people that visit this board), the majority of sex that I see going on is little more than self gratification and has nothing deep and meaningful about it. Witness the vast amount of internet bandwidth that is wasted on porn......I have nothing against this, I just personally feel it's a waste of energy UNLESS it's for procreation or as part of a deep and meaningful relationship. I myself have almost no sex drive. I find it very liberating in the context of makedah's question " how does it bother one to not get what one doesn't want in
the first place". Well it doesn't bother me much at all. I put my energy into eating, lifting, sleeping and seek out like-minded partners to share my intimacies with. I don't worry about looking buff for the beach so I can get shagged before the end of the week. However I'm also an older woman and I think most people's sexual priorities change with age. I think most people just confuse 'sex' with love and intimacy. So call me a Buddhist.

 

[rainbow22]

rainbow to MS

i agree with you more than you know. i'm no spring chicken myself but i can certainly relate to feeling like you have to keep up with the jones's sexualy speaking. i bet it IS liberating. maybe i'll get there someday but as a married person celibacy would be selfish. anyways thanks for the thoughtful response. btw whats a troll??