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sugarlicious
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Should children be given sex education in schools, or should this be the responsibility of the parents? How should it be taught?
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Should children be given sex education in schools, or should this be the responsibility of the parents? How should it be taught?
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silverstar1025
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Both! It should definitely come from the parents, but at the same times lots of parents out there don't make enough efforts with their kids so it must be taught. If it wasn't taught at all then I am sure we would have even more disease and teenage pregnancies. I could care less if the school teaches my daughters about it. I plan to talk to them about it too.
I had sex ed in school and I still remember it and it was a real eye opener. I was grossed out. lol
I had sex ed in school and I still remember it and it was a real eye opener. I was grossed out. lol
sugarlicious
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silverstar1025 said:
Interesting
So the message is not getting through to teenagers, judging by the number of teenage pregnancies and continuing spread of STDs. Identifying sexual responsibility with formal education can be counter-productive, as it can be fashionable to ignore what you are taught in schools. The most effective channel for sex education is the media, and particularly TV, films and magazines.
needtogetarmy
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The problem is hormones. Hormones will make rational humans make irrational decisions. Grown men who have wives and kids get caught sucking off hairy weirdos in bathroom stalls and hire prostitutes ala Spitzer for $75 a minute. They know better. Why do they do it? Their hormones are out of control. Plus there are psychological issues going on.
On another note, this stuff can happen to anyone but it does happen more to kids on the lower end of the socioeconomic ladder. Probably (1) they are not even in school to learn; (2) they are already living in an environment that encourages such behavior or an environment that simply doesn't condemn such behavior; (3) and they are brainwashed by the media that it is cool to bump and grind and have sex with 36 year old rap stars like R. "I wanna piss on you" Kelly.
IMO it all boils down to how you were raised. I learned at a very young age that if I screw up I will be held accountable for my actions. I've made it this far in life simply because of that. Too many people do not take responsibility for their actions.
sugarlicious said:
The problem is hormones. Hormones will make rational humans make irrational decisions. Grown men who have wives and kids get caught sucking off hairy weirdos in bathroom stalls and hire prostitutes ala Spitzer for $75 a minute. They know better. Why do they do it? Their hormones are out of control. Plus there are psychological issues going on.
On another note, this stuff can happen to anyone but it does happen more to kids on the lower end of the socioeconomic ladder. Probably (1) they are not even in school to learn; (2) they are already living in an environment that encourages such behavior or an environment that simply doesn't condemn such behavior; (3) and they are brainwashed by the media that it is cool to bump and grind and have sex with 36 year old rap stars like R. "I wanna piss on you" Kelly.
IMO it all boils down to how you were raised. I learned at a very young age that if I screw up I will be held accountable for my actions. I've made it this far in life simply because of that. Too many people do not take responsibility for their actions.
sugarlicious said:
Definitely both. Learning at school about the body pat names and some of the basic of reproduction are good for kids to learn in a group environment. Parents should express their specific wishes of the children as far as their sexual activity and protection, etc.
I know I'll be teachings strict abstinence to my kids.
responsibility?? or right of the parent??
school boards argue that there are families especially in urban schools where the child is not informed and thus is at danger of unprotected sex and pregnancy, so they believe that they have a responsibility to the child even if it's against the parents wishes to educate them..
trust me, in the mid 70's we were one of the 1st to get this "education" and when my kids were exposed to it, i was very involved in the subject and if and when they would be exposed to the "public's " opinion on when they should be exposed..
school boards argue that there are families especially in urban schools where the child is not informed and thus is at danger of unprotected sex and pregnancy, so they believe that they have a responsibility to the child even if it's against the parents wishes to educate them..
trust me, in the mid 70's we were one of the 1st to get this "education" and when my kids were exposed to it, i was very involved in the subject and if and when they would be exposed to the "public's " opinion on when they should be exposed..
sugarlicious
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HMMM SOO EVERYONE
Dont you think open discussion of sexual practice and relationships among younger teenagers encourages sexual activity before they are ready, by adding to peer pressure, and devalues its own message because of the risk of classroom ridicule. It is better to discuss sexual responsibility in a one-to-one context, either with older siblings or parents, or perhaps via Internet youth portals.
Dont you think open discussion of sexual practice and relationships among younger teenagers encourages sexual activity before they are ready, by adding to peer pressure, and devalues its own message because of the risk of classroom ridicule. It is better to discuss sexual responsibility in a one-to-one context, either with older siblings or parents, or perhaps via Internet youth portals.
txbondsman
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silverstar1025 said:
where was it, the gym or in a class room, etc? details...
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silverstar1025
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txbondsman said:
lol 9th grade in class
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dabuffguy said:
Totally agree! I did learn about what disease looked like in school though. NOT cool!
sugarlicious
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dabuffguy and silverstar1025
Your US Guidelines for Comprehensive Sexuality Education (1991) state, ‘all sexual decisions have effects or consequences’, and ‘all persons have the… obligation to make responsible sexual choices’. While Hollywood promotes casual, thoughtless sex as the norm, teacher-led discussions can encourage students to consider the responsibilities attached to sexual relationships.
Your US Guidelines for Comprehensive Sexuality Education (1991) state, ‘all sexual decisions have effects or consequences’, and ‘all persons have the… obligation to make responsible sexual choices’. While Hollywood promotes casual, thoughtless sex as the norm, teacher-led discussions can encourage students to consider the responsibilities attached to sexual relationships.
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silverstar1025
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Bottom line I know my girls will have sex whether I like it or not. I hope that they don't but my main responsibility is to make sure they are smart and protected if they do decide to do it anyway.
txbondsman
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silverstar1025 said:
you sexy momma you! dayum....
calveless wonder
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i learned sex ed from HBO
Everything I need to know about sex I learned here in C&C.
Now show me your tits!
Now show me your tits!
Basikstylz
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dabuffguy said:
+1
It really depends on what you mean by "sex ed"
schools should teach about the Reproductive system. I am unsure on how I feel about teaching "safe sex" I feel like schools should teach about STD's but thats hard to get into with out a safe sex disscusion.
Parents on the other hand should talk to their kids about all topics related to the subject.
Lestat said:
Prison will teach them everything they need to know.
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EarthRider
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Re: Should children be given sex education in schools, or should this be the responsi
As a leader over a group of teens. I had all the parents come in and taught them how to talk to their kids about sex. Truth is most kids know already, and parents need to be more involved with their kids on this subject.
As a leader over a group of teens. I had all the parents come in and taught them how to talk to their kids about sex. Truth is most kids know already, and parents need to be more involved with their kids on this subject.
needtogetarmy
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statistics show that poor kids have sex and children more than middle class and upper class. Perhaps the middle class are just getting more abortions.
cindylou said:
statistics show that poor kids have sex and children more than middle class and upper class. Perhaps the middle class are just getting more abortions.
Basikstylz
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Lestat said:
Because you don't have money to go out and do things so you just go somewere and smash... cuz its free... especially if you don't use protection!!
Unfortunatly it leads to something very expensive....
Right Puddles?
Basikstylz
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SpyWizard said:
Maybe... what if they put stipulations like free day care if you maintain a certain GPA? With regular grade checks. That way kids who make one bad choice can still have a chance if they try hard enough. While others that don't care it wont matter anyway.
milo hobgoblin
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sugarlicious said:
ya because we can rely on all the religo-tards out ther to teach their children about the human body without turning them into guilt ridden freaks who end up pregnant at 16.
Hell fucking ya school should teach sex ed.. its part of biology. The ony people who seem to have a problem with this are the hardcore Christians who are afraid their kids might see a cartoon boob and lose their minds turning into rapists.
Basikstylz
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SpyWizard said:
Ya, I would if we were going to give them free day care. Thats like giving them a schoalrship to attend school. I know what kind of grades I had to keep to get a loan for my college tuition, and I know what kind of grades my friends had to get in order to keep their scholarships.
So if we are going to give them something free they need to be sure they want to take advantage of the benefits they are receiving.
Yes I know we are talking about High School kids. But they need to show an interest in bettering their life. Not just a chance to get away from the kid and hang with friends in school.
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needtogetarmy
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Re: Should children be given sex education in schools, or should this be the responsi
Are you inferring high paid call girls have less sex?
Lestat said:
Are you inferring high paid call girls have less sex?
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