She can't cum...

[txbondsman]

I had a similar chick a while ago. A little younger and probably less experienced (I was her 3rd) tho. Anyway, this girl was the sexiest female I had ever been with. EVER. But you know women, she didn't see herself that way in the least bit. She was totally shut down sexually. We'd have sex and all that fun stuff but she just wasn't 100% open with herself or me.

So....we talked. She told me her issues (build trust) and I told her my experiences. She was just kind of nervous about her lack of experience and her neurotic self image issues. Anyway, 9 times out of 10, when a girl can't cum at all it's one of these reasons:

- She has a poor self image and is too busy worrying during sex to actually enjoy it
- She is thinking too much about it
- She isn't quite comfortable yet with you

It's sometimes all three. Point being - get her comfortable and trusting. Once a woman is comfortable and in a trusting environment all of her sexual doors will be opened.

You gotta make em mentally orgasm before they physically do.

^^^^ yep, what he said. good post there Broseph, can't buy experience, you have to live it....

 

[Mostwanted211]

I think you should go with the weed or liquor......get her buzzin or drunk, or high and take it from there or give her some E and i bet she will cum

 

[txbondsman]

since that thread is from Jan, I hope she has by now.....

 

[NEO1]

BOIIING!

PS -- the men who do it best start out with their mouths and work the entire area before focusing too much on the clitoris. Then insert a finger or two, palm side up, and gently rub the inside of the upper wall. If you find a slightly spongey area (in some women it is raised) that is about the size of a silver dollar, that is the G-spot. Licking/sucking the clitoris while rubbing the g-spot takes almost every woman to orgasm.

 

[drsketch]

sounds like your bed skills are not elite.

 

[miplank]

PS -- the men who do it best start out with their mouths and work the entire area before focusing too much on the clitoris. Then insert a finger or two, palm side up, and gently rub the inside of the upper wall. If you find a slightly spongey area (in some women it is raised) that is about the size of a silver dollar, that is the G-spot. Licking/sucking the clitoris while rubbing the g-spot takes almost every woman to orgasm.

I love doing that to the wife...LOVE IT!...she cums in about 1 min. everytime. But she cums no matter what everytime...


I guess that's the perks of being married...I know what she likes, and she knows what I like.

 

[Mickey36]

I never experienced an orgasm until I met my husband. There were many factors that probably allowed me to remove the block... I was very attracted to him, very comfortable with him, he was thicker than everyone else, and he got me extremely excited and swollen before ever entering me. Just be patient and it might happen. If you make it an issue to her, then she will likely be more uncomfortable and therefore reduce the possibility of the "O". Good luck to you.

 

[the_alcatraz]

Try extended foreplay. Kissing the neck and ears. Nibble on her nipples for a while. Use ur tongue on her stomach and inner thighs. Wisper in her ears and establish some eys contact when you're suckin her nipples. Try to look for signs of what she likes and how she likes it. Get her really wet during foreplay. Go down on her and suck her clit while you use ur fingers to get her ready. Try different positions. Some girls can't cum unless they're lying on the bed. Others need to be on their knees. Try out a few different positions. Try 69. Tell her how much she looks sexy and how hot she makes you. Get her emotionally aroused as well as physically. A lot of women do not achieve orgasm out there. She is not an isolated incident. Touch a guy anywhere and it feels good. You have to know how to touch a woman. Wisper sweet sexy comments in her ear. Make sure she's very comfortable with you. Don't give up on it, because when it DOES happen, and it will, you will be the first guy to ever make her cum. Do you have any idea how big of a deal that is? She's never forget you.