Sexual Problem - need help

[Harder]

Hi,

My girl and I have been fooling around a lot lately. Basically, anything goes except for intercourse and anal penetration of her. She's really enthusiastic and will do whatever I tell her to do without hesitation - and will keep doing it until I tell her to stop.

The limits are not up for discussion.

She's really hot. Her body is perfect. Not fat - but thick - nice tits, an i-n-c-r-e-d-i-b-l-e ass and legs, and a face to die for. I like her feet, too.

Ok - here is the problem. I can make her cum. With my mouth, with my hands, I can do it. She likes it. She is much harder to make cum than any woman I have been with, but as we continue I am getting better at it.

Problem - she can't make me cum. In fact, no woman can without intercourse - and I've been with enough to know - nothing works except for intercourse. I haven't really had anal but I am pretty sure it would work.

I have no problem doing it to myself, either. It comes pretty quick if I want it to (especially when thinking of her). But I want her to be able to do it.

So far we've done oral, lots of jerking, her sitting on me using a lubricant and her hands with the base of my cock in her pussy lips, her using her feet, me humping various parts of her body (that seems to be what gets me closest - but it just doesn't cross the ejaculation threshold). It all feels good, and she can really deep throat me which is not easy given my size and gerth. She tries so hard she frequently gags.

Any suggestions? Obviously the problem is on my end. I really don't desire oral sex - I don't see how guys can cum with just that.

I really want her to be able to make me cum.

Any suggestions?

 

[JustJacked]

why wont she let you stick it in her?

 

[marshallmadman]

Hi,

My girl and I have been fooling around a lot lately. Basically, anything goes except for intercourse and anal penetration of her. She's really enthusiastic and will do whatever I tell her to do without hesitation - and will keep doing it until I tell her to stop.

The limits are not up for discussion.

She's really hot. Her body is perfect. Not fat - but thick - nice tits, an i-n-c-r-e-d-i-b-l-e ass and legs, and a face to die for. I like her feet, too.

Ok - here is the problem. I can make her cum. With my mouth, with my hands, I can do it. She likes it. She is much harder to make cum than any woman I have been with, but as we continue I am getting better at it.

Problem - she can't make me cum. In fact, no woman can without intercourse - and I've been with enough to know - nothing works except for intercourse. I haven't really had anal but I am pretty sure it would work.

I have no problem doing it to myself, either. It comes pretty quick if I want it to (especially when thinking of her). But I want her to be able to do it.

So far we've done oral, lots of jerking, her sitting on me using a lubricant and her hands with the base of my cock in her pussy lips, her using her feet, me humping various parts of her body (that seems to be what gets me closest - but it just doesn't cross the ejaculation threshold). It all feels good, and she can really deep throat me which is not easy given my size and gerth. She tries so hard she frequently gags.

Any suggestions? Obviously the problem is on my end. I really don't desire oral sex - I don't see how guys can cum with just that.

I really want her to be able to make me cum.

Any suggestions?

I got news for ya buddy. I used to think the same thing before I found a girl that really gave a good blowjob. I was never able to get a nut before, and thought that maybe I was a fellatio non-responder. Then I met this girl who guaranteed me that she could get me off in less than 5 minutes. Naturally, I had to take her up on this little demonstration. It was 3 minutes and 50 seconds for those of you keeping score at home.

 

[quadkilla31]

She might as well let you fuck her. If she let you do all of that and you still not hitting. I 'd send her on her way.

 

[Harder]

Hi -

First, she won't let me nail her and in my better moments, I agree with her. Work with me, k? Also, I would never drop a woman not letting me in. And I would especially not leave her for this reason.

marshallmadman - I think you may be right. I don't think she's had to many in her mouth. Maybe as few as one. Can you describe the technique that worked for you? Please? She is always asking me if she is 'doing this right'.

It's ok. I love her. I think it would mean a lot to her if she could do it - it would mean more to her than it would to me.

 

[220]

I got news for ya buddy. I used to think the same thing before I found a girl that really gave a good blowjob. I was never able to get a nut before, and thought that maybe I was a fellatio non-responder. Then I met this girl who guaranteed me that she could get me off in less than 5 minutes. Naturally, I had to take her up on this little demonstration. It was 3 minutes and 50 seconds for those of you keeping score at home.

I'll take up the challenge. How did she make you cum, penetration or did she beat your monkey?

 

[marshallmadman]

I'll take up the challenge. How did she make you cum, penetration or did she beat your monkey?

It was all by mouth. She was working the balls by hand though.

 

[Mr. Black]

Tell her to stick a finger up your ass next time she's sucking you off...guarantee you will blow your load.

 

[terrapin]

People say that bad head is better than no head at all - I disagree. Getting a bad blowjob is just boring.

Now, for your problem:

Solution 1.

Watch some porn together with women that really know how to do it.

Solution 2.

Try a 69 - bad head gets a lot better when you have a pussy in your face!


Good luck!

 

[gab9681]

Solution 2.

Try a 69 - bad head gets a lot better when you have a pussy in your face!


Good luck!

Yes, this is so true, so true.

 

[dugie65]

maybe you are self concious?

 

[AlphamaleStS]

I think your the girlfriend.

 

[220]

It was all by mouth. She was working the balls by hand though.

I need to find a new woman, one that can actually give good head. those are so rare

 

[marshallmadman]

I need to find a new woman, one that can actually give good head. those are so rare

There are a few different types of girls out there. There are ones that are just plain dabbling in head. Then there are ones that love to suck dick, but they just aren't very good at it. Those girls are diamonds in the rough. You just need to communicate what feels good to you, and they will definitely cooperate. Then there are the ones who love to do it, and are good at it too. Those girls are gold. The worst of the bunch are the ones that refuse to do it, but don't mind you eating their pussy. Those girls are worthless.

 

[Harder]

Then there are ones that love to suck dick, but they just aren't very good at it. Those girls are diamonds in the rough. You just need to communicate what feels good to you, and they will definitely cooperate.

That's what I'm dealing with. She really enjoys having me in her mouth and she says she likes how it feels. I just can't quiet communicate to her what really feels good because I don't know what feels good. It's like trying to explain to someone how to drive a car when you've only ridden in one.

And there is no way I will learn how to give good BJs myself just so I can teach her how to do them from experience.

I found some articles on the web explaining how to do it by women who know. I'll ask her if I can forward them onto her.

Apparently we have learned here that his is a common problem and that the problem isn't mine - it's her's - and it's common because one in a hundred women know how to do it well. Which is a good thing because she can improve.

 

[Harder]

People say that bad head is better than no head at all - I disagree. Getting a bad blowjob is just boring.

Now, for your problem:

Solution 1.

Watch some porn together with women that really know how to do it.

Solution 2.

Try a 69 - bad head gets a lot better when you have a pussy in your face!


Good luck!

You are right about a bad is worse than none at all. Here out I'm just not going to let her put it in her mouth until she gets some education.

Re: solutions.
1) I guess we could. I am not sure that you can really tell how to do it because you can't see what's going on inside the mouth.
2) Tried it. Doesn't work because I seem to forget she is doing anything at all to me at all as my tongue explores her pussy and asshole.

Going to try getting her to read some articles on how to do it well - so you are on the right track. I'll let you know how it goes.

 

[Gymgurl]

Just tell her or show her what you want. Most men like different areas of their dick sucked, licked and jacked. Tell her by making noise what feels good....why won't she let you have sex with her? I couldn't just give a guy a hot blow job without being fucked.....

 

[JustJacked]

Just tell her or show her what you want. Most men like different areas of their dick sucked, licked and jacked. Tell her by making noise what feels good....why won't she let you have sex with her? I couldn't just give a guy a hot blow job without being fucked.....

I like this girl!

 

[2lunatics_ina_rubber_room]

That's what I'm dealing with. She really enjoys having me in her mouth and she says she likes how it feels. I just can't quiet communicate to her what really feels good because I don't know what feels good. It's like trying to explain to someone how to drive a car when you've only ridden in one.

And there is no way I will learn how to give good BJs myself just so I can teach her how to do them from experience.

I found some articles on the web explaining how to do it by women who know. I'll ask her if I can forward them onto her.

Apparently we have learned here that his is a common problem and that the problem isn't mine - it's her's - and it's common because one in a hundred women know how to do it well. Which is a good thing because she can improve.

If you were limber enough you could blow yourself and then tell her how to do it ! Think outside the box !

 

[2lunatics_ina_rubber_room]

That's what I'm dealing with. She really enjoys having me in her mouth and she says she likes how it feels. I just can't quiet communicate to her what really feels good because I don't know what feels good. It's like trying to explain to someone how to drive a car when you've only ridden in one.

And there is no way I will learn how to give good BJs myself just so I can teach her how to do them from experience.

I found some articles on the web explaining how to do it by women who know. I'll ask her if I can forward them onto her.

Apparently we have learned here that his is a common problem and that the problem isn't mine - it's her's - and it's common because one in a hundred women know how to do it well. Which is a good thing because she can improve.

If you were limber enough you could blow yourself and then tell her how to do it ! Think outside the box !

 

[SizeMatters875]

I had a similar issue awhile back, my wife's mouth is too small to take even half of me inside. So she would suck on the head and lick the shaft, rub the balls, tickle the anus, rub the prostate (from the outside), etc. This worked for awhile then nothing.

Then I figured i would fuck her mouth. Told her to just open wide, say ahhh!. I grabbed her head and pumped away. It's took a few time to get it just right (not going too far and gagging her) plus she is getting better and taking more. But that thrusting feeling, is enough. Now she is adding in the other stuff again and I don't know if I could hold off for 3minutes 50 seconds now.

Try that if she is really open, might help.

 

[Dirk Howat]

Hi -

First, she won't let me nail her and in my better moments, I agree with her. Work with me, k? Also, I would never drop a woman not letting me in. And I would especially not leave her for this reason.

marshallmadman - I think you may be right. I don't think she's had to many in her mouth. Maybe as few as one. Can you describe the technique that worked for you? Please? She is always asking me if she is 'doing this right'.

It's ok. I love her. I think it would mean a lot to her if she could do it - it would mean more to her than it would to me.

Either:
1) She is a virgin and is afraid
2) She does not like sex and is a Top lesbian or is a Catholic, or genetically has a low sex drive, i.e. PUT HER INTO HEAT
3) She is trying to lure you into marriage.

I would first try to figure her out more before I made a next move.

 

[Harder]

Either:
1) She is a virgin and is afraid
2) She does not like sex and is a Top lesbian or is a Catholic, or genetically has a low sex drive, i.e. PUT HER INTO HEAT
3) She is trying to lure you into marriage.

I would first try to figure her out more before I made a next move.

1) Not a virgin.
2) She does like sex. She can't get enough. She tried to suck me off a few times and I pulled her away. She does everything I ask her to - even stick her finger in me to get at my prostate - and when I told her it hurt cause of her nails, she said she would cut them.
3) Nothing wrong with that. I guess you haven't read the post.

I think she may eventually give in and let me poke her. But even then, it would still be nice to enjoy a good BJ and she really likes trying. She looked really sad when I pulled it out of her mouth for fear of falling asleep.