That's what I'm dealing with. She really enjoys having me in her mouth and she says she likes how it feels. I just can't quiet communicate to her what really feels good because I don't know what feels good. It's like trying to explain to someone how to drive a car when you've only ridden in one.
And there is no way I will learn how to give good BJs myself just so I can teach her how to do them from experience.
I found some articles on the web explaining how to do it by women who know. I'll ask her if I can forward them onto her.
Apparently we have learned here that his is a common problem and that the problem isn't mine - it's her's - and it's common because one in a hundred women know how to do it well. Which is a good thing because she can improve.