curious about the female pov, are there not women who crave a hook up with no expectations or guilt?
Really, if you had the ability to match this, you would have an ideal situation (guessing there are "hook up" clubs for this)
Most women dont understand that men have different ways of looking at these things...Relationship...Love..etc. is one, and just taking care of a "need" is another. Ive known guys who truly and totally loved someone, but still got some "external therapy" every now and then, and never lost one bit of Love or Feeling for their relationship. Truth is that most men would do this if they didnt have to worry about the womans feelings. I tried to explain this one night when a bunch of us (couples) were hanging out, and the funny part was the women all thought "not my guy, he doesnt think about those things" but I golf, play ball, etc with these guys (and they are stand up guys) and they DO think this way. Oh well, right or wrong, we mostly live our lives keeping these thoughts secret.