Sex question for the guys

[Werd]

Do you guys always orgasm every time you have sex? Is there any particular time of day or circumstance where you find it more difficult to orgasm (barring drinking, of course)?

 

[javaguru]

Barring drinking.....I've never had to fake an orgasm.....

 

[Werd]

Barring drinking.....I've never had to fake an orgasm.....

No, no that isn't what I am asking or implying.

I am merely asking if you always end every sex act with orgasm? I have had experience with American and European men. And the European men don't always feel the need to reach orgasm. (At least the few that I have been with.) They always get me off (not hard to do LOL) and want to keep getting me off... even when all I want is for them to cum. But there are many times when they do not. I am always satisfied - actually they usually prefer to go down than to continue with intercourse.

Just wondering about this.

There are many many women who never orgasm.

I am just interested in the difference between the way different men approach sex. Do you guys feel like you have to orgasm in order for the sex act to have been considered "completed" or "good"?

 

[d3track]

it always a nice way to end it

i guess not totally necisary, but if i don't i feel like i missed out on something

 

[guards]

I have a hard time finishing when being given oral sex

couldn't even begin to tell you why

 

[Werd]

These are the responses I was looking for.

I don't have gobs of experience but for the most part the few guys I have been with all seemed to be the same - finish with an orgasm. It wasn't until recently that I noticed this is not the case with all men. And it makes me feel kind of "bad" to some extent.... as if I didn't truly satisfy them. But I also understand there is a philosophy by which the man does NOT want to achieve orgasm, however, to see how long and how often he can delay it.

It just blows my mind when a guy has not reached an orgasm, I have had at least one and he is gettin' his freak on like nobody's business, but just doesn't cum. I ask if he would like me to "finish the deal" with oral and the reply 9 out of 10 times is, "No, I would prefer to eat you and give you another orgasm... then I will be satisfied."

 

[Robert Jan]

Hm. Id say its strange not to want one. Maybe they were showing off how much of a selfless lover they are

 

[Mandinka2]

Nothing more like a man than pleasuring his woman, i rarely come.

 

[Mr. Black]

Nothing more like a man than pleasuring his woman, i rarely come.

If your an efficient love maker you can do both At any rate I always make sure my woman has climaxxed before I blow. I can't imagine not cumming, it seems to defeat the whole purpose of why men have balls and the fun of using them.

 

[Dial_tone]

I pretty much always reach orgasm, unless the sex is just that bad. I try to delay mine as long as humanly possible because honestly, watching a woman orgasm is a much bigger turnon than having an orgasm myself. Calling my current partner multi-orgasmic is like saying Donald Trump has a few bucks. I try to pace myself and plan 3 moves ahead so she has 3-4 orgasms for every one of mine. 12 orgasms in 3-4 hours is very doable for her.....matter of fact we've done it several times. The goal is 24 orgasms in 24 hours. I will be one sore-jawed zombie after that.