This is my first post ... IMHO Jersey Pete hit the nail on the head. I'm in the same situation ... I've let myself go, become out of shape and disappointed in myself, therefore I don't feel sexy and don't like they way I look naked. Make it easy for your wife to work out, i.e. watch the baby, go to the gym with her, walk with her, etc. I've recently started working out again and FEEL SO MUCH BETTER!