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kulio

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Ok before you all laugh in my face, please give me some helpful advice. :)

Been going out with this new girl for almost 2 weeks now and we've had sex 3 times. My problem is I can't get her to orgasm which is really fustrating for me and kills a lot of the fun. She tells me not to worry about it because out of all the guys she has been with not one of them were able to bring her to an orgasm. I take it she is just trying to make me feel better which is not really working.
What are some things I can do to make her go wild? I notice she gets dry really quick and needs some lube to keep going. I highly doubt I'll beable to bring this girl to an orgasm with my penis alone because I can go for hours and even when she has control she can't reach it. Also it is hard for me to stimulate her clit with my hand or tounge because i can't find the bastard. Either she cut hers off or its hidden damn well because I've never had this problem with anyother girl.

I've been with a few women in my day and had no problems bringing them to an orgasm. Unless of course they faked which i hope is not the case. So I'm not a complete failure :)

Any help is appreciated.
thanks in advance
 
Dude have her masterbate in front of you, have her guide you to her clit with your finger, no wait better yet your tongue ......and the rest is history.
 
I should also add that when I'm fingering or tonging her, I'll go to the area where I beleive the clit is on 99% of girls and I'll try and stimulate that area. Sometimes I know I'm on it because she'll start twitching and moaning and a lot of the time she'll say "you're on it". But I don't feel the clit or see it which is different from the other girls I have been with. Either I'm completely clueless about sex or this girl is wack
 
Put her on some juice to make it grow some then you'll be bale to find it! :D I had a girl like this once but, she couldn't even get herself off & we always had to use KY, needless to say, I dumped her. Call it what you want but, that was definately not enjoyable. BTW, sure she didn't used to be a man & therefor doesn't have a clit? :D :alien:
 
Sweetie some women are not orgasmic (is that a word). Believe me I know :( That doesnt mean she does not enjoy it.
 
Is the GF gonna be ok with it? And dont you dare say 3-some!
 
I dated a girl for 2 years got her off maybe once...i would have to fuck her forever which is like 30 minutes to me.........i thought it was me i tried everything...

then i met this bitch that gets off in 5 minutes and it was great but we broke up just when it was getting fun...


SOME WOMEN CAN SOME CANT
 
Its weird, it seems like your body adjusts to different women.
2 girlfriends ago, my ex used to take at least 45 minutes and I got so I could go forever. My last girl could go in a couple minutes and I would rip fast as hell.
 
Read this site: www.the-clitoris.com

There are myriad reasons why some women have trouble having orgasms during sex. It could be an emotional problem, or she may have difficulty expressing what she needs -- she might not even know what she wants in bed. Or she might know but can't ask for it.

Three times isn't enough to know much of anything about her, sexually, so take your time. Frankly, concluding that she is "wack" :rolleyes: because she doesn't respond like other women or has a smaller clitoris than they do is immature, especially if you want a fulfilling sexual relationship with this woman. If you're just 'boning' her, then why do you care about her orgasm?

Above all - do NOT say things that might make her feel pressured. Saying "I want you to cum" to a woman who has no trouble in that area is one thing, but she might feel rushed, put on the spot or that she's letting you down if she doesn't have an orgasm. It would always kill the mood for me when a man said that. Don't push her to the point where she'll just fake it!!! I'm not saying that you should just throw up your hands and say "she's not going to cum, so I'll just get mine." I'm saying what Bronzed Goddess said -- There's a lot of pleasure to be had other than just the orgasm. Give her that. And hey, you both might get a surprise...

Thirty minutes is 'forever'? My last man went for HOURS. (God, I'm gonna miss him!!!) But there were still plenty of times when I didn't have an orgasm.
 
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dude, why don't you have her tell you when you're doing something good when you're going down on here. She needs to give you positive feedback when you're doing something right.
 
Grrrrr. Guys some women don't have orgasms! Get over yourselves. Sex can feel really great for me and oral sex OMG but some chicks just don't climax. Just enjoy the ride and quit questioning it.

Now I'm going to go check out that link :(
 
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hahah,

Ive actually made woman come orally who have never came that way before...

(well thats what they tell me at least)

My current GF cums way before I do, so she says she gets about 2-3 when Im done... Not alwasy though...

I am happy she gets them.. my ex would not get them very often at all...

BG- Wanna try?
 
If I go all the way up to Canada, I better have MULTIPLE ORGASMS! Don't bite off more than you can chew sweetie!
 
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