Well confidence to some people can be seen as arrogance and unapproachable.....
treilin said:
It seems to be the theme for my life this year.. It's all I have heard. I heard the contrary too... One woman I overheard tell another,"She seems so friendly she is always's smiling!" It appears as though women find me more approachable then men... 'cuz it's my male friend's that make the off comments. Do they expect me to be all over them? 'cuz.. Uhh I'm just not gonna be that type! I'm not here to fit any mold, maybe they need to change the way they view others' and be more confident. I think I intimidate them because they have no clue as to what to talk with me about to keep my interest. Then again.. I didn't think I was that difficult... I think it's them not me.. Enough rambbling out of me... Back to another certification test I have to go take 
But I've also gotten it my whole life... or people saying "smile, lifes not that bad BLAH" I'll smile when I have something to smile about 
Mainly the gym and the bar whenever I actually go... Not toooo often.jpt said:when you say men are grabbing you and making off comments to you....where is this taking place? bars? clubs? church?
just re-read your comment...women are grabbing your bodyparts too? that's not so bad is it? lol j/k
in all honestly ...be who you are. either people see the real you or they don't...and if they don't ...then they are missing out big time based on what people say about you on the board and from what i have figured out through our brief time on this board together
good luck on the test!
) headphones on...head down...dripping sweat....aaahhhh. plus i wear a head band to look like more of a dick and ensure no one wants to talk to me lol
NO I have the Bitch look downjpt said:that's kind of weird....peopel touching you in the gym.
i am extremely unapproachable at the gym (not that anyone would really want to me anway
It's usually right before I'm getting ready to head out to the weights or right after when I'm taking my head phones off. I usually give off the don't f--- with me look and I still get it. I don't mind if people ask me a specific question for help about an exercise but the rest is un-called for!! I try not to make eye contact, no smile, head phones, sometimes hat... I still get it... Hmmmmmm.....I had some old guy come up to me the other day when I was doing shrugs. I'm over in the corner on the sm by myself. I was pretty much zoned out because he scared the crap out of me when he walked up to me. So I shake his hand intro myself (he already knew somehowtreilin said:NO I have the Bitch look down
) and he just stands there like I'm interested in having a conversation. Huh? Ok....have a nice day, now....be on your way! lol I wonder.....what makes people do that? Most of the time that doesn't happen to me tho. 
(said as a totally straight female, of course)
We're not even talking about old guys'scorpiogirl said:Hmmmmmm.....I had some old guy come up to me the other day when I was doing shrugs. I'm over in the corner on the sm by myself. I was pretty much zoned out because he scared the crap out of me when he walked up to me. So I shake his hand intro myself (he already knew somehow
Maybe you ARE approachable - or just irresistable! he he
That's a every day thing about...I see, so everyone just wants you to "diagnose" them when you're busy.treilin said:We're not even talking about old guys'
I have no idea what makes them come up to you. Most find out I'm a massage therapist and feel they need to tell me about their issue in the middle of my work-out... I want to help them but at the same time I look at my watch and ask them to come back in X amount of time so I can finish my work-out. I will talk for at least 15-30 minutes about their issue, just not in the middle of my work-out!
Leg soreness coming in now! Vastus lat and med are both starting to scream!
I guess I should have used different termonology. But basically they want your input on what is wrong and what they should do to correct it. There.....that better?treilin said:Oh oh oh wrong term... I cannot legally diagnose anything... I am not a doctor. I can 'suggest' what I think it is
(skin care / difficulties blah blah blah)
Yeah I bet you do! I was going to say a really snide remark here but I have a feeling some people who read this would think I was 'cold'. lmao: Check for a PMscorpiogirl said:I guess I should have used different termonology. But basically they want your input on what is wrong and what they should do to correct it. There.....that better?
I deal with that here on a daily basis too
Well I love helping people and trying to figure out what's going on.. that alway's intrigues me because it's something a bit different with everyone. Again... Even small talk in the middle of my work-out is annoying 2 me. So it doesn't matter what it's about...jpt said:
.....rec'd......treilin said:
treilin said:
Hook it up! Sept 17th I get back U, SBT, and I can hit the townSSsssss and whoever else. Got the guest bedroom! Go egg that car headquarters and smash empty wine bottles against it!jenscats5 said:Hmmmmm I feel left out.....I haven't gotten to grab ya or see "the look" or get diagnosed.....
Checks Orbitz for flights.....
treilin said:Hook it up! Sept 17th I get back U, SBT, and I can hit the townSSsssss and whoever else. Got the guest bedroom! Go egg that car headquarters and smash empty wine bottles against it!
Also, hon you are not missing anything by not 'grabbin' me! I feel like a piece of meat all I need to be is spiced and cooked to order. Then again I look like a 'boxer' now so maybe the grabbin will stop
Almost forgot to add.. I can 'suggest' that you are a nut case!
I can't diagnose...
I say PARRRRRRTTTTTTTTAAAAAAAAYYYYY!!! Jens, I'll start passing the hat again now for your plane tickettreilin said:Hook it up! Sept 17th I get back U, SBT, and I can hit the townSSsssss and whoever else. Got the guest bedroom! Go egg that car headquarters and smash empty wine bottles against it!
Also, hon you are not missing anything by not 'grabbin' me! I feel like a piece of meat all I need to be is spiced and cooked to order. Then again I look like a 'boxer' now so maybe the grabbin will stop
Almost forgot to add.. I can 'suggest' that you are a nut case!
I can't diagnose...
Or just swing by DE and pick ya up on my way back here... how's that sound???
The problem is they are sampling the goods by 'grabbin' and paying nothing... O.k. I'm not a freaking grocery store where you go and get your tummy full on all the free samples they hand out and then decide if you want to purchase or not. I come pre-packaged.. you either buy the whole damn thing, or you get none damnitflorencia said:
sbt2082 said:I say PARRRRRRTTTTTTTTAAAAAAAAYYYYY!!! Jens, I'll start passing the hat again now for your plane ticket
Morning T!! This is your Official Dancing Banana, erm, moose...erm.... 
treilin said:Then again I look like a 'boxer' now so maybe the grabbin will stop
Diet is good... It's my base diet.. Sometimes things get a little switched or a few minor altercations but nothing seriously out of proportion. Well unless I'm attending my friend's birthday celebration at a VEGAN restaurant like last night.Gymgurl said:
treilin said:
Eh.... NO MEAT!jenscats5 said:
treilin said:
I had a beef tenderloin steak last night for ya'!treilin said:
Actually October 7th works better. I volunteered to help put on a learning seminar in honor of Sally Ride (women in the work place) on how optics, illusions, and engineering work at University of Michigan on Sept 30th.scorpiogirl said:I had a beef tenderloin steak last night for ya'!
.....did someone say SEPTEMBER PARTY?
My birthday is on a thursday but it'll do... Or we can... doesn't matter... Just have to pre-plan my schedule fills in quickly. Especially if I start teaching at the school when I get back from Europe.I have a friend competing in Ohio in Sept., but I don't remember the date so I need to check on that and I think my daughter's baby shower will be the first weekend in October. So that's my schedule....loltreilin said:Actually October 7th works better. I volunteered to help put on a learning seminar in honor of Sally Ride (women in the work place) on how optics, illusions, and engineering work at University of Michigan on Sept 30th.
http://www.sallyridefestivals.com/
Unless.... You want to do it the weekend of the 28th... My birthday weekend
Just gotta' check schedules..... Nice dream SG at this thread & the smilies. Jens, Treil would be on that dj table dancing, cute gif though 
You get to check out that new gym by your house before you leave? Something fun to come back to, that's for sure
HA ha ha.... I had a crazy @ss dream last night again also... It was like 4 dimmensional and it was almost like I was in a computer game it was wierd... My dad and I were trying to climb this mountain but the mountain was like plastic levels we had to jump up and there was no edging and we just kept hopping all over the place and on different levels we were running into different people... SBT jumped in on a few levels but didn't say anything. My dad was pissed at a couple of the people... and I was just confused why I had to keep jumping up this mountain... WHo knows...scorpiogirl said:I have a friend competing in Ohio in Sept., but I don't remember the date so I need to check on that and I think my daughter's baby shower will be the first weekend in October. So that's my schedule....lol
I think the b-day weekend would be a good time to do it!!!!!
Just remembered this.....I had a dream last night that I was at your house - sbt was staying with you, of course! lol .....I was leaving to go somewhere north and didn't know my way and I ended up lost by the Embassy Suites on 7 Mile.....lol I was trying to find Lincoln Hwy...or something like that! lol
*Bunny* said:
treilin said:Morning JPT and SBT
I guess I'm VERY thankful Protein powder is in powder form because as of today no liquids are allowed on planes
According to this morning’s NY Times, in the article “Plot to Bomb Jets Is Thwarted in Britain” (available at the link http://www.nytimes.com/2006/08/10/w...&en=13f881599701f2d5&ei=5094&partner=homepage), most liquids are being banned from carry-ons and security lines are long. In fact, the following is a quote from the article:
Lines at Detroit Metropolitan Airport security screening positions, which normally move swiftly, stretched from inside the airport back to the parking structure across the street this morning. The scene was orderly, but trash cans were already filling up with bottles of water, sunscreen, eyeglass cleaner, contact lens solution, hand lotion and mouth wash.
Here’s the TSA link w/ the specifics of the ban on liquids:
http://www.tsa.gov/press/happenings/threat-change.shtm
treilin said:Morning JPT and SBT
I guess I'm VERY thankful Protein powder is in powder form because as of today no liquids are allowed on planes
According to this morning’s NY Times, in the article “Plot to Bomb Jets Is Thwarted in Britain” (available at the link http://www.nytimes.com/2006/08/10/w...&en=13f881599701f2d5&ei=5094&partner=homepage), most liquids are being banned from carry-ons and security lines are long. In fact, the following is a quote from the article:
Lines at Detroit Metropolitan Airport security screening positions, which normally move swiftly, stretched from inside the airport back to the parking structure across the street this morning. The scene was orderly, but trash cans were already filling up with bottles of water, sunscreen, eyeglass cleaner, contact lens solution, hand lotion and mouth wash.
Here’s the TSA link w/ the specifics of the ban on liquids:
http://www.tsa.gov/press/happenings/threat-change.shtm
Yeah ended up with the New (OLD) lady who fished around my arm with the damn needle and then stuck it through my vein... Fu@kin reject.... took 20 min to fill the damn bag up.scorpiogirl said:
Ummm Hmmmmm Just wierd the way they friggen worded it... and it came right before the question:They only asked about "viginal sex"? You would think they would ask about the other 2 ways too!! lol WTF does AFRICA have anything to do with it? Because they're riddled with AIDS there?treilin said:Yeah ended up with the New (OLD) lady who fished around my arm with the damn needle and then stuck it through my vein... Fu@kin reject.... took 20 min to fill the damn bag up.
Stay away from the old ladies and you'll be fine!!!!!
I did have to laugh at the questions....
Have you had vaginal sex in the past 12 months?
Have you slept with anyone from Africa?
Well..... HA HA HA
scorpiogirl said:
No they asked about anal and oral sex... I just thought it was funny that they just didn't say any type pf sex.. Seems like they would say sex including anal or oral. I dunno...scorpiogirl said:
Nope I was ready to get out of there... I was there for 2 hours!!!sgtslaughter said:
Your poor arm. Do you bruise easily?treilin said:
Oh... you're lucky. I was there for hours too... but I passed out after, lol.treilin said:
Yeah Well it was bad 'cuz I fell asleep which means blood flow real slow... If they would have done it when I got there it would have gone quicker. Oh well I donated they have my blood... I did my part and know my 2 hours of time at least will help someone else that needs it!sgtslaughter said:
treilin said:
*Bunny* said:LOL I meant Jens suga .. she was being naughty on hump day
Yeah I actually was not feeling it at all....*Bunny* said:LOL I meant Jens suga .. she was being naughty on hump day
face in my log next to legs and yeah.... Someone is not going to be walking soon! Feel MUCH MUCH better now. I had 3 guys' that normally don't say anything to me stop and say, "that's a lot of weight".... I said,"Do you want to work in?" They just laughed and said,"Uhhh no." I guess 345 pounds was a bit much for them 
treilin said:Yeah I actually was not feeling it at all....
I P O-W-N-E-D that gym today! I got pissed 'cuz S helped switch it a bit so I wouldn't have to do anything with DB's..... Well little did I know that my quads were still a bit pissed form monday! Had to kinx that exercise go back to the original plan minus a superset... So I get over there and by then I was real mad. So I pumped out 2 sets to walk over to the DB rack and find that there is only 1 60 pound DB... So I said F@ck it grabbed the 65's and pumped out 12 reps on set 4 at a 6 TUT. Got done still mad and my weights was just through the roof... I was so mad I drew an evil
I LOVE it lol You go girl!
Just popping in to say your new avi is beautiful!
Thanks everyone about the AVI... I'm going to have lots more musklessssstreilin said:
Just decided that my show picture is not a good representation of what I 'really' look like. It was a great day but time to move forward and back into reality... Just another step on my way into my muscle building phase. Wait till next year's body shots....
Plus went redder on the hair for fall...
I thought all the girls were these days!!!!treilin said:Thank you
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