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first advice would be not to call anyone over 30 "oldies".
second, sex doesn't stop once you're married. not at all.
third, is something that is hard to comprehend when you're younger, and its the fact that there really is so much you don't understand about life. you think you do, but in 10 years you're going to look back and laugh at your younger self.
second, sex doesn't stop once you're married. not at all.
third, is something that is hard to comprehend when you're younger, and its the fact that there really is so much you don't understand about life. you think you do, but in 10 years you're going to look back and laugh at your younger self.
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Date as many TYPES of women as you can
Make a list of things that YOU are about
Try as many things as you can - jobs etc
Make a list of things that ARE deal breakers in relationships and dont EVER vary from that list - too me a LONG time to do this myself
Make a list of things that YOU are about
Try as many things as you can - jobs etc
Make a list of things that ARE deal breakers in relationships and dont EVER vary from that list - too me a LONG time to do this myself
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stilleto said:first advice would be not to call anyone over 30 "oldies".
second, sex doesn't stop once you're married. not at all.
third, is something that is hard to comprehend when you're younger, and its the fact that there really is so much you don't understand about life. you think you do, but in 10 years you're going to look back and laugh at your younger self.
ok ok, thanks for 1 and 3.. but u gotta be kidding me on 2 ??
i mean when you like arround 20 fit and single.. sex is like as often as you can. and its like in the back of your car with some hot ass 20 year old leaning over the seats screaming do it now ! lol and ermm i can olny imagin that when ur married lying in bed at 9pm reading your books. the mans ask the wife"well today its a friday i suposse that means .... " then the wife would say " yes , ok darling. " then lights go off, 10 mins later there asleep .
or have i been watching far too much TV ??
digimon7068
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i'm 42. . .been married for 14 years. . .still get bizzy with my wife 3, 4, sometimes 5 times a week. . .you have bad information my friend. . .
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Gymgurl said:
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stilleto said:
shhhh
denial is not just a river in egypt
Sassy69
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Hell, my parents still get it on and they have a condo on the beach as a backdrop! (They are 65 & 67....)
I'd say just like Shadow said - get to know yourself and give yourself a wide range of experiences so you aren't isolated in your view of the world. RE: women - its my observation that most girls under 30 are completely lost and don't know themselves well because they are confused about what is considered a "good girl" vs "a skank", what they want to do w/ themselves as far as career / life / marriage / kids, being comfortable w/ their own bodies and a whole cornucopia of other issues. Look for the girls who are comfortable w/ themselves, learn how to be comfortable w/ yourself and what it means to you to "be a man" and I think that will go a long way towards that healthy relationship / marriage in the future that doesn't have to end the sex after the honeymoon is over.
I'd say just like Shadow said - get to know yourself and give yourself a wide range of experiences so you aren't isolated in your view of the world. RE: women - its my observation that most girls under 30 are completely lost and don't know themselves well because they are confused about what is considered a "good girl" vs "a skank", what they want to do w/ themselves as far as career / life / marriage / kids, being comfortable w/ their own bodies and a whole cornucopia of other issues. Look for the girls who are comfortable w/ themselves, learn how to be comfortable w/ yourself and what it means to you to "be a man" and I think that will go a long way towards that healthy relationship / marriage in the future that doesn't have to end the sex after the honeymoon is over.
1. The crap you do now DOES have consequences later. But no matter how deep a hole you've dug at 19, the world WILL change in thirty years, and no the changes are not all bad ones.
2. Compound interest is an amazing thing. Get it working for you, not against you.
2. Compound interest is an amazing thing. Get it working for you, not against you.
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Life is too short to live it worrying about what everybody else thinks.
Why be normal?
And dont ask why, but rather ... why not?
Money buys freedom if you do not become a slave to it.
Some things that money can NEVER buy:
love.
happiness.
good health.
or a second of time past.
Why be normal?
And dont ask why, but rather ... why not?
Money buys freedom if you do not become a slave to it.
Some things that money can NEVER buy:
love.
happiness.
good health.
or a second of time past.
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Smurfy said:
slut
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tinytank said:
shit my wife and i have been married for 10 years now and we fuck, have sex, and make love like no other. even more so now then when we were dating. and yes we still do crazy stuff like sex in the bathroom at a bar, sex on the beach, hand jobs on the dance floor at a club.... we still look to do different things all the time. it only stops if you let it stop. sex is a major part of marriage and quite a few divorces are due to lack of sex. im not saying its the basis of all marriages but man it sure is great.
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tinytank said:
Seeing as how Omega is a 20-something year old who still lives at home with his mommy and daddy I think he should ban himself from this thread. LMFAO
And to answer your question I have been pregnant 4 times. It was such a wonderful time in my life but I made a poor choice. My ex NEVER told me how beautiful I was when I was carrying his children. Still hurts me to this day. <---- file that one for when a woman is carrying YOUR child. If she isnt the most amazing creature in YOUR EYES then there is something wrong with you.
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BIKINIMOM said:
my wife weighs 108lbs. . .when she was pregnant with our twins, she got. . . ummm. . .HUGE. . .but just in the belly. . .still had skinny arms and legs. . .before work every morning (she worked until the day before they were due. . .managing a trucking terminal with like 100+ dudes working in it. . .she's bad ass) we would stand in front of the bathroom mirror brushing our teeth and would look at each other in the mirror. . .i'd say "Honey, you're a monster." then i'd say "What's a monster do?" and we'd both hold up our arms, make claws out of our fingers and go "rrrrrrrooooaaaaarrrr!!" then we'd laugh our asses off and go to work. . .same thing every morning and it was funny every time.
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digimon7068 said:my wife weighs 108lbs. . .when she was pregnant with our twins, she got. . . ummm. . .HUGE. . .but just in the belly. . .still had skinny arms and legs. . .before work every morning (she worked until the day before they were due. . .managing a trucking terminal with like 100+ dudes working in it. . .she's bad ass) we would stand in front of the bathroom mirror brushing our teeth and would look at each other in the mirror. . .i'd say "Honey, you're a monster." then i'd say "What's a monster do?" and we'd both hold up our arms, make claws out of our fingers and go "rrrrrrrooooaaaaarrrr!!" then we'd laugh our asses off and go to work. . .same thing every morning and it was funny every time.
That's why you two are still happily married after all this time. Seems your wife made a WONDERFUL selection for a life mate.
I fucked up the first time but dangit got it SO RIGHT the second time.
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BIKINIMOM said:I fucked up the first time but dangit got it SO RIGHT the second time.
you deserve it
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digimon7068 said:my wife weighs 108lbs. . .when she was pregnant with our twins, she got. . . ummm. . .HUGE. . .but just in the belly. . .still had skinny arms and legs. . .before work every morning (she worked until the day before they were due. . .managing a trucking terminal with like 100+ dudes working in it. . .she's bad ass) we would stand in front of the bathroom mirror brushing our teeth and would look at each other in the mirror. . .i'd say "Honey, you're a monster." then i'd say "What's a monster do?" and we'd both hold up our arms, make claws out of our fingers and go "rrrrrrrooooaaaaarrrr!!" then we'd laugh our asses off and go to work. . .same thing every morning and it was funny every time.
so cheesy i hope thats didnt really happen
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tinytank said:
Not cheezy at all... laughter is how couples make it through life... Friendship and kindness is far more important than lust.
LIKE is far more important than LOVE.
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tinytank said:
sure it did. . .we've been married for 14 years now and as i said above ^^^. . .we get bizzy 3 to 5 times each week. . .she loves me long time for that "cheezy" shit. . .talk to me when you're 42 and you're still bangin' the headboard as much as me. . .
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tinytank said:
lust is pretty cool. . .and it's fun to still have it after 17 years together (14 married). . .but it ain't what gets you through the minefields and it probably won't be a factor when you're 80. . .other than that
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digimon7068 said:
Tinytank... if you arent listening to me then listen to this guy. ^^^
I think he knows what he is talking about. Wouldnt you agrewe?
Lust dont mean shit... that is not unless you are still lusting your wife of 14 years, who also happens to be the mother of your children.
Then it means PLENTY.
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BIKINIMOM said:
Grumpy Old Man
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BM, Speaking about banging head boards..... Maybe we can leave the office and get some busy work done at home??? Now digimon7068 is truly a man among men! He and I have the same opinion! Kudos to him!
Oysters and shrimp or something else tonight?
tinytank said:
You're not asking anything specific, or about marriage, etc...
I can tell you that EVERYONE in the room with you has the same fears as you may have. Everyone in the room with you has stupid shit they think of. Everyone in the room with you has done and will do stupid shit in their life. It doesn't matter if they're the janitor or the President of the US or even George Spellwin. Don't put ANYONE above you. Make YOURSELF the most important person in any room you're in.
Having said that, you need to carry yourself in that same manner. Talk is cheap, it means nothing to just say "I'm important". BE important. Be true to yourself and others will se it. At least the people that matter. The people who don't see it, don't matter.
No they don't, Trust me.
tinytank said:
No, it's even simpler than that.
If there is one thing a 19 year old needs to know, it's that mortgaging your house to buy an iPod is stupid.
Owing money leads to owing more money. Saving money, even a little money, leads to the discovery that money makes money, which in turn leads to not being a slave to a job you hate. It's not just about choosing your job -- it's about establishing a basis of freedom from debt, so you can afford to be choosy.
(Yes, jobs, plural. Having lots of little jobs can be more fun than one big one... but it's also the hallmark of someone who's drowning in bills. If you are the sort of person who likes variety, choose it because it's fun, not because you're desperate.)
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digger said:
Wise words indeed but should also be understood as karma not just currency.
All the money in the world will not buy love, happiness or a single moment of time past.
Remember all, money may not make the world go round, but love wont pay the rent.
Balance is paramount.
almost every post on this thread is worth saving - and BM your right. Love wont pay the rent! haha!
I have a tip - dont feel like you have to drive a 60,000 car in your 20's. Everyone else will, but if you have to borrow the money; you cant afford it, and you are setting yourself up for debt and high car payments for the rest of your life. hell, not even a 30,000 car in your 20's if you have to borrow most of it. Save your money and pay cash for things that go down in value. =)
I'm only 25 so I'm not old - but I was stupid when I was 19 and borrowed 25 grand w/ nothing down on a car that I'm still paying for - when I had a fine car that ran allright.
So,yeah. I'll never do that again.
I have a tip - dont feel like you have to drive a 60,000 car in your 20's. Everyone else will, but if you have to borrow the money; you cant afford it, and you are setting yourself up for debt and high car payments for the rest of your life. hell, not even a 30,000 car in your 20's if you have to borrow most of it. Save your money and pay cash for things that go down in value. =)
I'm only 25 so I'm not old - but I was stupid when I was 19 and borrowed 25 grand w/ nothing down on a car that I'm still paying for - when I had a fine car that ran allright.
So,yeah. I'll never do that again.
^^^^ Read that Again.stilleto said:first advice would be not to call anyone over 30 "oldies".
second, sex doesn't stop once you're married. not at all.
third, is something that is hard to comprehend when you're younger, and its the fact that there really is so much you don't understand about life. you think you do, but in 10 years you're going to look back and laugh at your younger self.
You don't believe this, but external appearances are the LAST thing to base a lifetime committed relationship on, because they change, end of story. No matter how well you eat, how much you work out (and when you have a house, and kids, and car payments and insurance payments and utility payments and the choice is getting to the gym or taking a second job, guess which you do?) you're physically going to mature and stuff changes. If you want to have children with the woman you love, her figure is going to change, that is a fact (she doesn't necessarily have to be heavy, but pregnancy changes your shape, that's all there is to it).
You do not make a committment to spend your life with someone because their BODY doesn't bore you, you commit to a person because their BRAIN doesn't bore you. Good sex is icing on the cake, it's the conversation that matters. Marry your best friend, a person that you wouldn't care if they woke up tomorrow and could read your mind, a person you respect, whose mind turns you on, and I promise you there will still be fire and passion 5, 10, 15 or 20 years down the road.
Money, be meticulous about saving and live within your means. Enjoy your job, whether you make a fortune at it or not, because you spend WAY too much time there to hate it, and realize that your job will never be a replacement for a happy family life.
Eat healthfully, take your vitamins, get regular exercise, stay away from all tobacco products, don't drink to excess, meditate or pray regularly, and decide that being happy is more important than being right. Do that all now, keep doing it, and you will be a happier, healthier individual overall.
This covers the rest:
Please note: the following speech has spread all over the Internet as "Kurt Vonnegut's commencement address at MIT". The truth is that Vonnegut had never delivered this address.
"Ladies and gentlemen of the class of '97:
Wear sunscreen.
If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be it. The long-term benefits of sunscreen have been proven by scientists, whereas the rest of my advice has no basis more reliable than my own meandering experience. I will dispense this advice now.
Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth. Oh, never mind. You will not understand the power and beauty of your youth until they've faded. But trust me, in 20 years, you'll look back at photos of yourself and recall in a way you can't grasp now how much possibility lay before you and how fabulous you really looked. You are not as fat as you imagine.
Don't worry about the future. Or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubble gum. The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind, the kind that blindside you at 4 pm on some idle Tuesday.
Do one thing every day that scares you.
Sing.
Don't be reckless with other people's hearts. Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours.
Floss.
Don't waste your time on jealousy. Sometimes you're ahead, sometimes you're behind. The race is long and, in the end, it's only with yourself.
Remember compliments you receive. Forget the insults. If you succeed in doing this, tell me how.
Keep your old love letters. Throw away your old bank statements.
Stretch.
Don't feel guilty if you don't know what you want to do with your life. The most interesting people I know didn't know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives. Some of the most interesting 40-year-olds I know still don't.
Get plenty of calcium. Be kind to your knees. You'll miss them when they're gone.
Maybe you'll marry, maybe you won't. Maybe you'll have children, maybe you won't. Maybe you'll divorce at 40, maybe you'll dance the funky chicken on your 75th wedding anniversary. Whatever you do, don't congratulate yourself too much, or berate yourself either. Your choices are half chance. So are everybody else's.
Enjoy your body. Use it every way you can. Don't be afraid of it or of what other people think of it. It's the greatest instrument you'll ever own.
Dance, even if you have nowhere to do it but your living room.
Read the directions, even if you don't follow them.
Do not read beauty magazines. They will only make you feel ugly.
Get to know your parents. You never know when they'll be gone for good. Be nice to your siblings. They're your best link to your past and the people most likely to stick with you in the future.
Understand that friends come and go, but with a precious few you should hold on. Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography and lifestyle, because the older you get, the more you need the people who knew you when you were young.
Live in New York City once, but leave before it makes you hard. Live in Northern California once, but leave before it makes you soft.
Travel.
Accept certain inalienable truths: Prices will rise. Politicians will philander. You, too, will get old. And when you do, you'll fantasize that when you were young, prices were reasonable, politicians were noble, and children respected their elders.
Respect your elders.
Don't expect anyone else to support you. Maybe you have a trust fund. Maybe you'll have a wealthy spouse. But you never know when either one might run out.
Don't mess too much with your hair or by the time you're 40 it will look 85.
Be careful whose advice you buy, but be patient with those who supply it. Advice is a form of nostalgia. Dispensing it is a way of fishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts and recycling it for more than it's worth.
But trust me on the sunscreen."
That should do it
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I have 4 daughters 17, 18, 19 and 22,
A close friend of theirs and mine who was just 19 just committed suicide, 11/14/06
I don’t know what to say, expect going to funeral for a boy so young seemed and is so wrong & terribly sad.
A close friend of theirs and mine who was just 19 just committed suicide, 11/14/06
I don’t know what to say, expect going to funeral for a boy so young seemed and is so wrong & terribly sad.
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You must spread karma around b4 giving it to MM.
"Wishing your family patience, trust, kindness and understanding... and, the strength to weather the storm!"
"Wishing your family patience, trust, kindness and understanding... and, the strength to weather the storm!"
Bro i'm 49 all this good advice is killing me your 19 have fun. Your still a kid act like one while you still can i'm a big kid and all these adults up in here are way too serious for me. No its all good advice save money, date tons of woman, to your own self be true, treat people the way you want to be treated, have morals.
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Be kind.....
Don't take others for granted....
Don't take your health for granted....
Don't take others for granted....
Don't take your health for granted....
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I wish I read this when I was 19. MM and BM have alot of good insites, read there posts 2 or 3 times.
post often
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hehtinytank said:
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If u are ever in that situation, and u honestly think your pregnant wife looks bad...... then u probably weren't ready to have kids. I probably shouldn't be saying this because I don't have any kids, but I have heard similiar things from friends with kids and pregnant wives.tinytank said:
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