Question for the ladies

[micromko]

thanks Fit!!

 

[CrystalChick]

Problemo

I have a problem with a trainer..... he is always smiling at me checking me out when Im training but he is getting worse now he
makes comments kind of making me uncomfortable ewwww I don't want to tell him to FUCK OFF because he works there butttt he is making me sooooo uncomfortable....
I was doing kickbacks the other day and well I have a mirror behind me so you could see tooshie..... well I looked up.... and there he was looking in the mirror I looked at him he smiled and looked in the mirror again...He is making me sooooo uncomfortable now I could laugh it off but his comments are embarassing.....

 

[freak daddy]

Does your gym have a juice bar?

LMFAO!!!

 

[wyst]

If she's serious about working out, she's not looking to be picked up, BUT no one ever knows when or where they'll meet "the one". So, just start small, like smiling and saying hello. You can gauge your next step based on her reaction to that. If she seems receptive, maybe say something else, but keep it short and then get back to your own workout. She'll really appreciate that. (She's probably been hounded before, and you don't want to set off her hound alarms.)

If that goes well, talk to her a little the next time, but always be brief, and preferably before or after her workout rather than during. But try not to let her catch you waiting around for her. Even if you do that, don't let it be obvious! (shades of creepy) And don't follow her around in her workout (unless she asks) - this is the worst! Be patient, if after a few times all signals appear to be "go" (she likes talking to you and no significant other appears in the picture), then go for it!

I agree. I'm a sociable type myself, and I like to socialize with others. Sometimes I'm in the mood. Less often in the gym, but sometimes, when I'm having a good day, and the endorphins are doing their thing...I wouldn't mind. But I like the subtle approach, and the ones who interest me know when I am interested back. The problem comes with the guys who don't know how to read a gentle "not interested" vibe. But you don't sound like one of those guys.

 

[Virtual Acid]

Umm.. how about no..

Honnestly i dont think its that...Well... Turny-onish when a guy hits on me, specially when im working out..i mean GROSS.. All sweaty and bleah...So d00d i wouldnt do it if i were you.... i know its hard and all to be surrounded by a bunch of sexy chicks in spandex but im sure you can mannage

 

[wyst]

The best approach I use when picking up babes in the gym is to TOTALLY ignore them. Even make it a point to piss 'em off a tad.
My best line is, "So when you going to decide and drop that 10 lbs of fat?" Or, "You need to wear more baggy clothes." This open's up a quick dialogue, and they always remember you! This is key as continue to reinforce your presence.

Then there is the killer approach of "working in". I like to do this often, especially at the leg presses and such. They always have to say yes when I ask to work in cause it's the gym rules. Then I RACK up them weight to the hilt, sweat all over the pads, grunt, cuss up a storm, and then say to them "Your Set". Women just love that.

Nice!

You left out BO and a big hi-protein fart, LOL!

Wyst

 

[wyst]

Be still, my heart!

LOL

 

[ann]

I never get hit on at the gym , cause my 250+ hubby is always right behind me Kind of like having your own bodyguard....

 

[CrystalChick]

Spatterson

Hi Spatterson,


Nope he is a weirdo annnd he is not my trainer I don't have one sooo he is not being helpful he makes comments in front of other guys and his clients and he makes me feel uncomfortable....
If he was offering assistance.... I don't know if he would be gazeing at my ass in the mirror LOL


CC

 

[OTCbooty]

WarLobo, what an ass! You sure know how to push the right buttons.