question for EF guys...

[miplank]

really, why not? once you voice out your interest things are never realy the same agian.

I think he means that he is willing to risk the friendship for the poon...


I'd be willing to be most guys are...

 

[~IVY~]

I'll fuck everyone, even my male friends

LOLOLOL

 

[PICK3]

I'll fuck everyone, even my male friends

 

[stosstruppe]

There is no such thing as female friends for males, only women he wants to sleep with anytime in the future.

 

[-Ariel-]

do you find yourself romantically interested in your female friends? do you find it difficult to express you feelings?

i think the reason men are often hesitant to express interest is because of fear of rejection if they think the girl probably does not find them romantically interesting. I think the most common reason a guy would stay quiet, though, is that he doesn't want to wreck the friendship at the moment.

also i think men connect with women on a "sisterly" level, where they enjoy spending a lot of time with a woman without developing romantic interest in her, maybe because he is not at all physically attracted to her or feels she would not be a good match.

Guys if you have been in this situation...please share you expierence if you don't mind.....and tell me if my reasoning is off.

The best relationships I've had started out as friends... the only reason though I was quiet at the time was she was either seeing someone else, or I thought I had no shot... but yeah, the question of ruining the friendship did always weigh me down, but I was just too selfish to let that hold me back, I think the more depth the dude has, the more quiet he will be when it comes expressing anything about starting a romance, however, dudes like that are not exactly the majority. IMO.

 

[Smurfy]

There is no such thing as female friends for males, only women he wants to sleep with anytime in the future.

lmao i have been told this a lot in the past. by other men.

 

[chris302001]

There is no such thing as female friends for males, only women he wants to sleep with anytime in the future.

I'd say that's true to an extent....but not written in stone. It's always in the back of the mind......but I think if you find somebody that you can really connect with, those thoughts never come to consciousness.....

I'd also say the same is true for women, but just at a much smaller scale......then again, how the fuck do I know?

 

[-Ariel-]

I'd say that's true to an extent....but not written in stone. It's always in the back of the mind......but I think if you find somebody that you can really connect with, those thoughts never come to consciousness.....

I'd also say the same is true for women, but just at a much smaller scale......then again, how the fuck do I know?

+1
The more you connect, its weird... I dunno the less it becomes about sex, I'm not articulating the thought, but it just seems the more u connect genuinely, and not as a result of you trying to manipulate the situation, then I have to agree that the whole sex thing kinda dissipates, again I have to reiterate that like Chris I have no fucking clue either.

 

[captainahole]

funny don't have any female friends that interest me that way at all. Most of the time I find once I get to know them they're no interest to me. Besides most are older and out of shape and carry way to much baggage around and that's a quick turn off.

 

[needtogetaas]

really, why not? once you voice out your interest things are never realy the same agian.

Like hell they ain't. If you really want to rail a girl she already knows it. Saying it don't make no difference at all.

If she says no then your still in the same spot. She know you want to rail her, you know you want to rail her, and your stuck in the friend zone.

I mean don't act like you can't already tell when a man wants to ream your poon hole. You know, all the womens know.