I am actively looking inward at myself trying to understand why I do that and makes appropriate changes. I'm 30, I have a little girl - obviously this isn't working out for me in the long run.
I know it sounds cliche, but I love intellectual girls - but I always seem to pass on them for the pure beauties. I think I get so much intellectual stim from my work that I kind of want to unwind from that and end up doing the most non-mentally engaging activities possible when I am done with work. Just a theory. That includes non-mentally engaging women.
But then again I have never really tried to date a woman that I could carry on a coversation with, at my own level, for very long at all. I need to try it. I'd probably be releived.
People annoy me with stupidity in general, the mentally challenged girls that I am around all the time tend to really get on my nerves with the complete lack of comprehension skills. That doesn't ever help my mood or the relationship.