Problem Getting it UP

[lxa_pimp_008]

Ok, im being really serious and really dont care to be made fun of about this. i have a new g/f and for some reason i cannot get it up for her when it comes to sex. I can get it up for a blowjob, ect. but when it comes to sex i cannot even get it up manually to stick it to her. What could possibly be the problem. I have run cycles before, but i dont think my test levels are an issue, but i did get some labs done at the doctors to make sure? Is it all in my head, or what? Would viagra or cialas help??

 

[DJ_UFO]

It's in your head. That could happen to men. It is something like lack of confidence in the other person..I don't know. Just relax...don't think in how to do it...just look what you like to see and think in hitting that...

 

[dirty~d~]

It's mental. Drugs aren't necessary for your situation. Do you like her on an emotional level or is it strictly sexual? She might make you nervous... (wanting to perform well). If she's a real women she'll understand and help you through it. Maybe you need something to distract you mentally from her, but not from sex. Is she willing to try watching porn during?

 

[makalauna]

You better gain some confidence soon or else you'll be back to the old monkey spanking!! I'm sure this chick isn't gonna stick around for a limp one!! Get it together!!!