your total cal intake is high, drop it down to more around 2200. this should pretty much all come from your carbs also. i say this because you are at 250g of carbs; drop that down to 150-100 and you will be set. after you get that part of the diet nailed down nice look up 'carb cycling' - which, in short, plays with the amount of carbs. this will enable you to make the most out of your diet. you also have the option of a ckd diet but they are not that fun imo.
now for your workout:
first, go to the weight lifting and read the last sticky. look at the 5x5 program that works great. you can do each body part up to 3 times aweek (i.e. i bench and squat 3 times a week). there are a lot of things you need to think about before doing this. the best thing i can tell you is invest in a plam membership for one month to get the search function. this will be THE BEST $15 you spend during your working out history. seach and read, read, and read. look up post from madcow2 and gleenpendlay - very smart people. there is a lot to learn there and that forum can and has answer everything you want to know.
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