please help with sex drive

[cipherking]

my girlfriend has no sex drive. is there anything she could take to help boost it and make her horny at all. this is a serious question because we dont have sex at all and she wants to be in the mood again.

 

[cipherking]

dam no help ladies?

 

[Gymgurl]

How old is she?

 

[cipherking]

shes 26 and shes been on birth control since high school

 

[FRC21]

shes 26 and shes been on birth control since high school

I dated a young girl like this for sometime. Come to find out her hormones were all messed up and she got on HRT. She also had some female problems that required surgery. After we passed all that she loved to fuck.

 

[cipherking]

I dated a young girl like this for sometime. Come to find out her hormones were all messed up and she got on HRT. She also had some female problems that required surgery. After we passed all that she loved to fuck.

whats HRT? where can we get it

 

[FRC21]

whats HRT? where can we get it

Hormone replacement thearapy, her gyno refered her to an endo doc. Very costly for us but it helped her greatly.

Has she always had a low sex drive? Does she masterbate? What does she say about the low drive?

 

[cipherking]

she didnt always have low sex drive,but sex wasn't something she loved to do. she doesnt masterbate at all. she says she just doesnt have the urge to. things have gotten worst over the last 3 years. I know she wishes that she wanted to but she really could care less if she had sex.

 

[musclemom]

There was almost a word for word post in another forum, I don't have time to look for it now, maybe tonight.

Anyway, get her hormones tested by an endocrinologist. Gynecologists aren't the best for this shit unless they have a subspecialty in endocrinology.

But I gotta tell you, when you meet a 23 or so year old woman, you love her and she loves you but she could take or leave sex, or she was never particularly interested in it, that is NOT an indicator that she's gonna turn into a nympho down the road, m'kay?

Horny women who completely lose interest = problem.

Women who were never particularly horny to begin with being even less interested now they're in a committed relationship = normal.

Having sex less than you did when you first started going out after being together three years = very normal.

See what I'm getting at here?

 

[FRC21]

she didnt always have low sex drive,but sex wasn't something she loved to do. she doesnt masterbate at all. she says she just doesnt have the urge to. things have gotten worst over the last 3 years. I know she wishes that she wanted to but she really could care less if she had sex.

Take her to the endo doc. Something is causing this because most girls her age fuck like rabbits.

 

[cipherking]

i guess ill have to make her go to the doctor. things have been very stressful the last few years with job stuff. i

 

[Creepusmaximus]

She just might not beable to handle her job. It happens to some people. Once my wife had our first child is was really over for her. She just couldn't do anything but work and sleep. She was totally useless. New job solved the problem.

 

[cipherking]

i hope things turn out better in the up comming months. thanks for all the help everyone

 

[musclemom]

i hope things turn out better in the up comming months. thanks for all the help everyone

Look, get her hormones tested by a qualified endocrinologist. If everything in that department is okay then the next step is to think about counseling. She's a young woman, just throwing drugs at her is going to create problems. You want to definitively rule out health problems and really know WHAT's going on. If it's not physical/hormonal, then the psyche needs to be looked at.

Best of luck.

 

[Gymgurl]

Could be the pill....it can kill the sex drive in women.....have her talk to her Dr. to see if there is a "real" reason besides just not interested anymore