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[Baoh]

I'm not pregnant. Wasn't talking about myself. And no I'm not knocking housewives. I'm knocking people who had other aspirations and settled for being housewives to men who will never be around to be good husbands to them.

lol

Work on being a good girlfriend before you try and decide how men should be good husbands. I get the feeling it will be lifelong line of work for you to do so.

 

[Crazy Ivan]

I'm not pregnant. Wasn't talking about myself. And no I'm not knocking housewives. I'm knocking people who had other aspirations and settled for being housewives to men who will never be around to be good husbands to them.

You worry too much about things you'll never be able to control.

 

[jnuts]

Definitely. Unless they're into emotional masochism or submission.

Consider: the girl I was referring to gave up her dreams and ambitions to come live in Bumblefuck, NY with her new husband.... Its irresponsible and selfish of anyone who is not going to be able to fulfill his role as a father to start a family. And its wrong of him to make her give up her life to sit around and wait for him.

Do you have something other than a statistical sampling of one to back up your thoughts?

 

[bunnymt]

we were having a fight because i don't have respect for certain women who give up their dreams and ambitions to be housewives to men who will always be deployed. in particular, a certain 21 year old girl who is now going to have a child on top of giving everything up, with a guy who will be gone for a year.

What?? Did I miss something here? What if she wants this? What if she loves him and wants to spend her life with him? Just because her guy will be away for a year is NOT the end of the world, if they have a loving, trusting partnership.
Anyway, who says that she is giving up her dreams? Just because a woman gets married and has kids does not mean that her life is over and she cannot pursue her dreams...she just has to look to the future to fufill her aspirations.

 

[guards]

Guards,

I want to point out that you needn't take this as a personal attack, because I don't know what your own situation was. You're Canadian, and I'm not talking about Canada. Maybe things are different there.

If you think the amount of time spent away from home varies amongst different armies, you are mistaken. If anything, canadian military members spend MORE time away on tour than American servicemen because of our low man numbers and the many UN tours that we have dedicated ourselves to.

 

[guards]

This thread has made me so mad that i don't think i can even post again on it without being truly aggressive.

 

[-SD-]

I'm not pregnant. Wasn't talking about myself. And no I'm not knocking housewives. I'm knocking people who had other aspirations and settled for being housewives to men who will never be around to be good husbands to them.

Then that's obviously their choice to make. These women know what they get themselves into so you cant knock them for it. Who are you to judge the choices they make for their lives, just because it doesnt fit in with your myopic, dysfunctional view of relationships?

 

[Baoh]

This thread has made me so mad that i don't think i can even post again on it without being truly aggressive.

Go for it, man. It's not like she's worth the shit on your shoe.

 

[Frackal]

well you could always cheat on him again

 

[Baoh]

well you could always cheat on him again

She likely has, and likely will. She'll also probably tell all of her female friends that he's a domineering asshole because he won't bend over on this issue.