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I'm pissed off right now. A certain boy is being a prick.
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deal. 
we were having a fight because i don't have respect for certain women who give up their dreams and ambitions to be housewives to men who will always be deployed. in particular, a certain 21 year old girl who is now going to have a child on top of giving everything up, with a guy who will be gone for a year.
anyway, boy just hung up on me, then called back to apologize, then said he wanted to smack me. so hung up. then he left me a message saying "you're fucked up to be so judgemental. have a nice weekend." who the hell tells his gf he wants to hit her and then doesn't apologize? ugh. even if i am judgemental, and i dont think there's anything wrong with being judgemental, that's no way to treat a girl. hmph.
we were having a fight because i don't have respect for certain women who give up their dreams and ambitions to be housewives to men who will always be deployed. in particular, a certain 21 year old girl who is now going to have a child on top of giving everything up, with a guy who will be gone for a year.
anyway, boy just hung up on me, then called back to apologize, then said he wanted to smack me. so hung up. then he left me a message saying "you're fucked up to be so judgemental. have a nice weekend." who the hell tells his gf he wants to hit her and then doesn't apologize? ugh. even if i am judgemental, and i dont think there's anything wrong with being judgemental, that's no way to treat a girl. hmph.
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VeggieLifterChick said:deal.
we were having a fight because i don't have respect for certain women who give up their dreams and ambitions to be housewives to men who will always be deployed. in particular, a certain 21 year old girl who is now going to have a child on top of giving everything up, with a guy who will be gone for a year.
anyway, boy just hung up on me, then called back to apologize, then said he wanted to smack me. so hung up. then he left me a message saying "you're fucked up to be so judgemental. have a nice weekend." who the hell tells his gf he wants to hit her and then doesn't apologize? ugh. even if i am judgemental, and i dont think there's anything wrong with being judgemental, that's no way to treat a girl. hmph.
poor form...
now you are just baiting the usual group...
VeggieLifterChick said:deal.
we were having a fight because i don't have respect for certain women who give up their dreams and ambitions to be housewives to men who will always be deployed. in particular, a certain 21 year old girl who is now going to have a child on top of giving everything up, with a guy who will be gone for a year.
Are you saying that women should avoid men that are in the service???!
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Not to be judgemental... but its damn easy to have opinions on people in situations that you aren't in. A year ain't much to give up for a great husband and beautiful child. Getting knocked up because u had unprotected sex w/ some guy means u basically forfeit a lot of your choices about ambition etc. for responsibility.
One of my best friends from HS and our class valedictorian basically did what u are talking about. She finished an electrical engineering degree, graduated summa cum laude, had the entire degree paid for by scholarship & married a guy who got deployed in the navy sub program about 6 months out of college. She's got 3 beautiful, smart as hell kids and hasn't worked. She has moved her family about 10 times, including to Italy & back 2x while moving with her husband's assignments. Now she has 3 kids who are multi-lingual and she has been successfully writing childrens books for about 10 yrs.
I've got degrees up the yingyang, a successful job and I'm in my mid (to late) 30s, living w/ a cat and fucking hating life alone. So... yea I had all the opportunity in the world to follow my amibitions - I've accomplished every one of them that I set out to do. But I'm not real happy with the current outcome.
I guess its all relative, but its certainly not worth an argument that involves him wanting to smack you. Shit, keep it in perspective already.
One of my best friends from HS and our class valedictorian basically did what u are talking about. She finished an electrical engineering degree, graduated summa cum laude, had the entire degree paid for by scholarship & married a guy who got deployed in the navy sub program about 6 months out of college. She's got 3 beautiful, smart as hell kids and hasn't worked. She has moved her family about 10 times, including to Italy & back 2x while moving with her husband's assignments. Now she has 3 kids who are multi-lingual and she has been successfully writing childrens books for about 10 yrs.
I've got degrees up the yingyang, a successful job and I'm in my mid (to late) 30s, living w/ a cat and fucking hating life alone. So... yea I had all the opportunity in the world to follow my amibitions - I've accomplished every one of them that I set out to do. But I'm not real happy with the current outcome.
I guess its all relative, but its certainly not worth an argument that involves him wanting to smack you. Shit, keep it in perspective already.
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