sub, have you considered that a lot more people would like you/girls would want to fuck you if you used your ability to make jokes to make them laugh without making them feel like shit?
not saying this in a bad way, cos i used to be the same - im fairly quick off the mark making a joke/one liner, and i used to verbally rape people (badly. very badly.)...and while it was funny/amusing for me personally in that people were like "dont get smart with golden, he'll destroy you and make you look like a retard without even trying", at the end of the day, it created barriers between me and others
just for comparison, look at alien amp pharm - he laughs at himself as much as other people, and makes people comfy/have fun around him. it also makes chicks more prone to want to shag him.
...now if only he knew what to do with that noodle between his legs lol (hiiiiii aap lol)