Man ya'll just dont know. The best size to be is 7-8 in length and 3-4 in circumfrencs. This is because you can actually be a lover and you can do all sorts of orgasm's. If your to long and wide your just pounding a hole and you cant work it enoughf and you never achieve hardness. For girls to orgasm you need to use certain positions for each girl. But 9 out of 10 times if you go towards the belly button area girls will feel a small pain at first then they will become relaxed with it and some times go totaly stiff all depends on the girl. But penis size is always best 7-8 inches if the girl wants to have a happy sex life.