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Out of my "zone" and could use a hand

nubz69

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More people look here so I am going to post this here.

I met this girl while helpping out at my buddies pizza place. She came in on business and my friend, the owner, wasn't there so I told her that I could get all the info and pass it on. While she finishes up business and we start chatting about motorcycles, where we are from and things like that. She ends up leaving and it isn't until after she leaves that I realize I should of asked her for her number or for some drinks. I end up calling my buddie to relay the work info and he says for me to take care of the rest of what needs to be done which entails me calling this girl up and finishing the deal. I call her and tell her and she says she can break an appointment to come in later that night. She comes in and we take care of the rest of the business, all the time having a conversation between my customers. Near the end, when I was getting ready to ask her out it gets busy. We are pretty much done with what we need to do and she stays standing there, luckily the guy who is supposed to releive me comes in and takes over. I get back to talking with her and ask her if she would like to go out for some drinks some night. She says yes and when I ask her for her number points out it's on the receipt. Through the converstation she tells me that tuesday she is going on a business trip and will be back friday. This all happened on friday the 18th. I was going to call her back after she got back from her trip but my friends said that was a bad idea (something I would normaly know but wasn't thinking). I called her monday night and talked to her. She still seemed intrested and made tentitive plans to go out on the 27th as long as she didn't end up going to Wisconsin with a friend for memorial day weekend (she made it sound like her friend had asked her but she wasn't sure if it was still going to happen). I asked her to call me when she got back in town to let me know if she was going to be around or not. I have not heard from her yet. I normaly don't leave messages but I called her once early in the day on sunday and then a second time to leave a message to give me a call. At this point I would normaly del. the number from my phone and forget about her except that she did seem genuinely intrested and she is the first woman I have met in a while who not only was physicaly attractive but was mentaly attractive as well. Even though I barely know her we seemed to click together, as much as you can with someone you just met. So what do I do? Do I keep being persistant and calling her, not what I would normaly do? If I should call, when should I(do I wait till the end of the week or call her now)? If I do and I get ahold of her do I just ask her out again or do I ask her why she didn't call or if she is even still interested? Do I just forget about the whole deal? Like I said, normaly I would just move on but something is telling me not to here. I hope you guys can give me some advice here.
 
I hate being in your situation. Happened a few times. I hate being the on waiting for the call back. I have been persisten and called and left messages. But tried not to often. Don't want to be needy. Wich it sounds like you usually do. Except when you and myself are really interested in a girl.

First situation called 3 times first week left one message of three. No reply.
Situation 2 called her 3 days after making out at party. Left message once week later. Never heard back.
Situation 3 got number from club, danced every slow song with her. She even asked me. Exchanged numbers. Called me 2 days later. Told me to call her next day. You guessed, her machine. Told her to call me whenever. Left another one a week later. That was last summer and nothing.


None of the occasions have ever gotten the call back. Not to say that it won't happen to you.
 
First off, go fuck some other chick, old g/f or something - it will make you feel happy.

Dont call this girl back, she doesent like you very much if she wont cancel other social plans to hook up with you. If she thought you were attractive enough to fuck/date, she would have blew her friends off to go out with you. Sounds like she is keeping you around as a "maybe" option, or somebody to use when she has no plans friday night, or to help her move furniture and shit.
 
just call her at the end of the week....if she answers than good....if you leave a message and she doesnt call back then nothing is hurt other than your feelings...but at least you will have known that you tried!
 
call her until the police show up at your door with a stalking order telling you they will arrest your ass if you call her again... then after they leave... call her again... then when you get out of jail call her to tell her she was WORTH goin to jail for!!! then she'll totally date you bro!!! I can't say it it's a no fail plan... because sometimes they will hook up with someone while you are in jail!! which really makes it all for nothing!!! but hey the only regrets we ever really have are the girls we didn't stalk!! :rolleyes:

hahah just fuckin around but yeah I'd give here one more call in a week or maybe two... hell she's got your info... just relax and hell maybe she'll call you?? if she doesn't maybe even let a few weeks go by and then just give her a casual call tell her you just came across her number again and you wanted to see what she was up to and how she's been?? you can feel her out with that casual conversation starter to see if she's still sounds interested and then if she's sounding friendly ask her if she's still up for drinks!! simple as that... but def don't stress it!! patience is a virtue and there are ton of attractive girls with good heads on their shoulders worth the time to kick it with!! so don't worry... if it comes together then great if it doesn't what was really lost?? just don't try to force it!! girls don't want to date desperation... it has everything to do with confidence!! and nothing shows confidence more than being relaxed!!
 
*edit* You guys pretty much just backed up what I was thinking. I don't seem to have a problem getting laid and I don't usualy stress about anything like this, it was just that usualy by now I get a call(which I did finally). Part of it is thought that this is the first girl I cared about getting to know a bit in in long time and that just made me feel a little off my game. Thanks for the help guys.

She called me back and left message, will keep yall posted.
 
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Well we ended up going out and the whole time I felt like I was "not myself". I'm not meaning I acted fake but I kept on making stupid comments the whole time and am sure I came off as a dumb ass. I do feel that we may have just been from two different world, I'm 26 and have been out in the real world and lived through some crazy shit, she is 24 and besides living on her own at school really hasn't done much. I have oner girls I keep in touch with, so no big loss. I though you guys just might want to know how it went/
 
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