orgasm help for my wife

[buffdoc]

Thanks, especially to MrsPuddles; appreciate the effort.
BTW, I didn't think Cialis was available yet. If it is, I can prescribe it to her. Lemme know.

 

[Big Moose]

Wellbutrin/effexor combo or Effexor alone. Much less sexual sides than Lexapro

 

[Ceebs]

Oops - sorry I missed this post! But it is certainly flattering to be considered in the same eschelon as kronkette and MrsPuddles.

Anyway, I'm with TheStromba and MrsPuddles - Cialis is an absolute miracle. I believe it's been approved in the US, however a lawsuit by the (jealous and greedy) makers of Viagra is postponing its entry into the market. I'm sure that someone will shoot you a PM soon about obtaining it if they already haven't. Alternately, shower massagers are really, really, really great things.

On a final note, I have the utmost sympathy for anyone with libido problems. I'm pretty young - I'll be 23 tomorrow - and never had problems before, but I went on a strenuous cutting cycle this past summer, and when I was at my lowest - about 14% bodyfat down from 24% - I could not get wet or in the mood for the life of me. I still wanted sex and intimacy just as much as ever, but the plumbing wasn't cooperating. I guess the sex hormones are called that for a reason. Good luck, I wish you both well.

 

[Bigsatan13]

Have you tried slapping her around a bit? This usually gets the old libido going.

 

[Puddles]

Ceebs has a good point about diet. I've read that lowfat diets will directly result in a lower libido. Maybe some flaxseed oil supps. would help with that? Just guessing here. Hmmm...flaxseed oil lube? hehehe

 

[buffdoc]

Hi Puddles,
Yes, we've both been on Flax oil and seeds daily for sometime. We've talked about switching her to Wellbutrin or adding Wellbutrin to the mix, but with the success of the Cialis, why mess with a good thing. We're both really thrilled with the results, and there seems to be even more tactile sensitivity, a feeling of desire and intimacy, like we're sharing a little secret. Nice!
Also, as I told you, she shaved. Incredible sensation. Why did we wait so long? We'll never turn back on that front, I tell you! Yowsah!
Regards
buffdoc

 

[buffdoc]

Have you tried slapping her around a bit? This usually gets the old libido going.

BigSatan,
No. no slapping around. However, she does dig a little well timed hair pulling and the occassional blindfold!
buffdoc

 

[Puddles]

Also, as I told you, she shaved. Incredible sensation. Why did we wait so long? We'll never turn back on that front, I tell you! Yowsah!

Something else to consider is laser hair removal. Kali used and recommends this place (they are in several states but you may have to find another place if they're not near you):

http://www.advancedlaserclinics.com/index.html

If you're looking for a last minute Christmas gift, this would be a great one! Print out the info and wrap it up.

 

[Kali]

Definitly go laser, you get more sensation due to the lack of a "buffer zone" as I would like to call it. Also, if she is going through a difficult point in her life, she is going to be very emotional. You may want to try appealing to that side more. Get a bubble bath going, a good shower head like Ceebs had suggested and enough lube to blow bubbles in. If you are going with a vibrator at first, I would go with a waterproof gel or my favorite, the "Pearl Bunny." Oil the girl up, but be really sensual about it. Sometimes women just need some emotional help. Remember women are more feeling, and men are more sight stimulated. Try a romantic night and just see how it works. Definitly go with the Cialis if she is willing to try that as well. It is cheap and lasts all day.

 

[Spectre]

Mr Sofageorge on the AS board is reporting that females and males for that matter are reporting an increase in sex drive with the Carao supplement. It's worth a try and good luck.