I think of myself as a savior to their relationship. After all, just like with the str8 guys, I provide a little 'relief' [well, with some its a HUGE relief] that is pretty much guilt free fun. Nothing serious; no emotional baggage. Just a form of stress relief that allows them to go home and have a calmer, healthier approach to their relationships. In some cases, it spices up their sex life! Sort of like a couple beers with a buddy on the way home; but less carbs.