one night stand rejection: how do ya'll do it?

[rnch]

after reading another poster's thread about the one night stander who did not call back; it got me to wondering how do ya'll deal with hookups that YOU perfer not to persue once you have showered and slept on it...but wants to keep in touch with you.....

guys AND gals.........your thoughts and actions, please?

 

[jenscats5]

Well in a true 1-night-stand there is no expectation of a call the next day or relationship.......you do the dirty & that's the end of it....

Now if there is a date situation and then sex & no call back - that's just downright rude.....

 

[Waka]

I was kinda hoping for more people to pick just flat out tell 'em the truth

 

[Huckster]

I don't do one-nighters to begin with.If I don't at least have somewhat of a friendship/chemistry,I don't hit it.Not into hurtin anyone's heart/feelings.

I know,I know...I'm a pussy.

 

[Destroyer1986]

Wouldnt know, never had a one night stand.

 

[megamania500]

At this point in my life, one-night stands are a distant memory. But when I was still in my late teens and early twenties I did it alot. Looking back on it now I guess I was a bit shady in my ways. After meeting a girl and flirting back and forth, as it went to the next level, I would say that I shouldn't because I was engaged, and if it did happen that it couldn't go any farther than that one night. Surprisingly, many girls were totally cool with this, and we would proceed with both of us knowing that it was just a one-night thing. After the night was over, when or if I ever saw the girl again somewhere, we would shoot knowing glances at each other, and maybe a smile or sometimes we'd even talk. And if someone else was around the talk between us would be totally innocent and casual.
It was crazy, but it seemed like when a girl went in knowing that it was just a one night fling, they would totally lose all inhibitions. Women really do have a "wild side". Unlike dating for awhile then sex happens and the girl acts all self-conscious and does stuff like not yet wanting you to see her naked, or like wrapping a blanket around herself when she walks off to the bathroom and things like that.
But I consider myself EXTREMELY fortunate that I still have my health and that I made it through those days without so much as a pimple on my manhood. Its not even close to being worth it to run around like that again, especially this day and age. I don't care how much protection is available. I played russian roulette too many times and I'm done while I'm still ahead. Meaningless one night stands lose their excitement over time.

 

[x_con]

in all honesty iive never had to really deal with it so to speak. No mater how drunk i was to sleep with some of cows i have, ill always get just as drunk a few days later. The worst looking girl i ever slept with, and she was bad believe me, i still called her back, they know the deal so its guilt free. Id call her and tell her to come over before i went out, at 8 or so, rub out that easy one with her and then move on to bigger, acctually smaller, and better things. Im 27 and ive been with well over 100 women, but even so, i dont through any of them back, they all feel better than my hand, all of them! Always and forever.

X_con

 

[delete]

Wouldnt know, never had a one night stand.

I'd be glad to offer it as your first experience; provided that is you in the avatar!

 

[Wulfgar]

its hard to call em back if you never found out thier name or number

 

[delete]

its hard to call em back if you never found out thier name or number

and if you call information, there are way too many numbers listed under "trick"