gettin in pants comes later, but shit, when you tell a chic upfront you prefer a woman at the end of the date if you ask if she wants to go out again, to be straight and just say no thank you or some shit like that, not let's talk in the morning, call me blah blah, After a 100 dollar night being nice and thinking you hit it off, the least they can do is be freaking honest! There more likely to get in trouble by being dishonest than honest