ok, need help bagging this gal at the gym

[Crying Brian]

I am looking for a relationship. There is this girl at the gym that i have noticed for a while, she doesen't seem to talk to anybody i have noticed. A couple weeks ago i approached her and made small talk and we exchanged names and handshakes. THen i run into her again last week and i jumped onto the treadmill next to her. She said hi brian, so that was good that she remembered my name. We talked for a bout 10 minutes about where she's from and our backgrounds, then i said i had to go and left. So now i am contemplating what to do. I want to ask her out but i am afraid i would scare her off she seems shy. So i figured i would ask her to help me workout cause i need more cardio, and doing it with her makes the time more enjoyable. I think i can do that once or twice to make her more comfortable with me thaen ask her out. What you guys think?

 

[Mach1]

Just ask for her number. Say "Hey, give me your number and I'll call you sometime". Has never failed me.

 

[mustang_00]

Do you even know if she's single or not???

 

[Crying Brian]

no i don't, but i am 95% sure she's not. We have some kind of connection it seems like, we get along so well for some reason.

 

[bluetwistedsteel67]

If she's not single (and you want a relationship, as you said) leave her alone. If she deny's you that would suck, if she cheats on her boyfriend to hook-up with you then she'll do the same later to you and that too would suck.

 

[H_T_]

well, if you don't ask her out, she'll never go out with you.

 

[jdevlin1985]

Be confident, head up, good posture and DO NOT BLUSH! Then just ask.

Simple!

 

[swaptrex]

seriously, just ask her to go to dinner or something...the worst that could happen is she would say no. i know it is alot easier said than done, but once you ask you will feel 100% better.

 

[Crying Brian]

Well i talked to her mon.night. We were talking about work and i asked her if she found time for a bf. She said she dates but she didn't have a bf, then she asked me if i had a gf. I then told her that i was sure she had plenty of options, and she just laughed and asked me the same thing. We made small talk for a while and then i asked for her # and she gave it to me. She said she liked meeting new people, i don't know if was saying that cause she gives her # out to everybody or she was trying to ease the tension.

Now i have her # now what do i do?lol. She seems so shy and everything i don't want to fuck anything up because i think she's a great girl. I want more than just a quick lay from this girl.

 

[bluetwistedsteel67]

well bro, if you don't want to fuck anything up you'd better call her. She asked if you had a GF? That seals the deal bro. Now she gave you her number and you'd better call her or she's going to wonder why you haven't then she's going to think you're a player (which you're not otherwise you wouldn't be asking these "what should I do" questions on EF) that doesn't have time to call her. Call her, tell her you've been dying to ask her out since the moment you saw her and she'll melt bro, trust me. These shy girls (really all girls) go for this kind of shit. They've heard all the lines so sometimes the uncool, honest approach turns out to be the "coolest" approach afterall. Then, and this is the most important, PIITB.