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No sex before the wedding...

Well my fiancee and I talked about not having sex before our wedding. I ment Friday night, the night before. I will not be around anyway. She will be at our place and I will be at a hotel. No big. She took it as last Friday night, a week before. We had amazing sex last Friday night after a night out and nothing since then....

I am finishing up 10 weeks of 700mg a week of test sust along with 300mg a week of deca. I have been an animal the last few weeks and now I am caged up.....WOW!!! Granted I have been taking care of myself 3-4 times a day but I am still going nuts...

Anyone that is marreid not have sex right before there wedding?
How did it work out for both of you?
How did you get by?
We have a active sex life and now nothing out of the blue....
HELP!
 
"how do you get a nympho to stop having sex?"


"you marry her!"
 
yonkers weights said:
Well my fiancee and I talked about not having sex before our wedding. I ment Friday night, the night before. I will not be around anyway. She will be at our place and I will be at a hotel. No big. She took it as last Friday night, a week before. We had amazing sex last Friday night after a night out and nothing since then....

I am finishing up 10 weeks of 700mg a week of test Sustanon along with 300mg a week of Deca-Durabolin - nandrolone decanoate - . I have been an animal the last few weeks and now I am caged up.....WOW!!! Granted I have been taking care of myself 3-4 times a day but I am still going nuts...

Anyone that is marreid not have sex right before there wedding?
How did it work out for both of you?
How did you get by?
We have a active sex life and now nothing out of the blue....
HELP!
She's already witholding sex broly, welcome to your first experience with married life. lollloollol.

Why is a bride smiling as she walks down the aisle......


She knows that she's given her last blowjob.....



Btw, ever get the feeling she's cheating on you? I do...she just seems like the type.
 
So this is just the start?
Not with us. We have a lot of fun. She is only 27 and loves it so I should be fine after this Saturday. I just have to make it to Saturday. We can go days sometimes without it but that because I am on a trip or we are just both busy but never just because....

Is it Saturday yet?

rnch said:
"how do you get a nympho to stop having sex?"


"you marry her!"
 
yonkers weights said:
So this is just the start?
Not with us. We have a lot of fun. She is only 27 and loves it so I should be fine after this Saturday. I just have to make it to Saturday. We can go days sometimes without it but that because I am on a trip or we are just both busy but never just because....

Is it Saturday yet?
I've never known a man that got married who didn't complain about the lack of sex in a marriage. You'll get some differing opinions on here but that is the exception to the rule, my marriage was one of those exceptions. I'm talking about couples that were dating for years before marriage and within a month of marriage I start to hear complaints from them and then she starts to gain weight and you don't want to have sex with her as much so it's easier to deal with...... :worried:
 
yonkers weights said:
Did you make it for a month???
WOW

pffft. . .fuck no! i can be very persuasive. . .it may have lasted two weeks, though. . .damn woman has the constitution of an army mule. . .probably one of the reasons we're still together after 15 years (06/27) of marriage. :)
 
yonkers weights said:
So this is just the start?
Not with us. We have a lot of fun. She is only 27 and loves it so I should be fine after this Saturday. I just have to make it to Saturday. We can go days sometimes without it but that because I am on a trip or we are just both busy but never just because....

Is it Saturday yet?
i hope ya'll are the exception, bor...most of my married bros (the ones whose wives let them come over to my house) constantly complain about how their wives have cut them off or have severely limited their nookie nights....quite a change from the sex machines the gals were BEFORE the wedding! :artist:
 
my husband and and I are the exception. He's not complaining ; I want sex more than he does.


we only dated 6 months before being engaged and were only engaged for 4 months though so we are still a new couple. lol
 
cindylou said:
my husband and and I are the exception. He's not complaining ; I want sex more than he does.


we only dated 6 months before being engaged and were only engaged for 4 months though so we are still a new couple. lol
lucky man! :artist: :chomp:
 
I know what you mean. She just has that look like she.....


javaguru said:
She's already witholding sex broly, welcome to your first experience with married life. lollloollol.

Why is a bride smiling as she walks down the aisle......


She knows that she's given her last blowjob.....



Btw, ever get the feeling she's cheating on you? I do...she just seems like the type.
 
rnch said:
i hope ya'll are the exception, bor...most of my married bros (the ones whose wives let them come over to my house) constantly complain about how their wives have cut them off or have severely limited their nookie nights....quite a change from the sex machines the gals were BEFORE the wedding! :artist:

Then there are some of us who married younger men and thought they'd be able to keep up w/ us in the sack....Man, did I ever get a lesson in life!

:)
 
No she loves it just as much as me if not more. That's why we work!!!
We both love to have fun. That's why she picked me and I picked her.
We are a good team. I am lucky!
Sex life is AMAZING and will stay that way for a long time....
 
I still got head twice this week. (Sun and last night)
She loves that and would never take that away from me or her.
She loves the power it gives her. I get to sit back and enjoy.
So I guess this no sex is not that bad...
 
my best friend/broly/partner in higher acts of stupidity (some of the long termers here my recall my threads about our antics) dated, moved in with and lived with a SERIOUS nympho....my first 3 way was with these two...after several years of co-habbing and 2 children made they FINALLY deceided to make it legal. 4 months after the lavish wedding the nympho informed my broly, in front of both sets of parents and most of their mutual friends, that "she had pushed out her children", that she was all done with him in the bedroom, to go find a tart on the side. :worried:
 
LOL @ every EF woman having a higher sex drive than her husband.

I've known ONE married couple with that situation and it was my marriage where I wasn't particularly physically attracted to my ex-wife. At marriage counseling she claimed to want it daily or more, I was generous WHEN I said once or twice a week. After our divorce, when she had been dating the guy she would marry for less than a year, he was complaining to me about never getting laid. It was then I really started to understand what she meant when she said,"It's funny how things turn around on you in a relationship" as we were walking to our hearing in family court for the dissolution.
 
rnch said:
i hope ya'll are the exception, bor...most of my married bros (the ones whose wives let them come over to my house) constantly complain about how their wives have cut them off or have severely limited their nookie nights....quite a change from the sex machines the gals were BEFORE the wedding! :artist:

lets see. . .it's wednesday and i already got it twice this week. . .yup. . .we're pretty much on track for a normal week (3 to 5 times). . .we'll be married 15 years 06/27. . .
 
yonkers weights said:
I still got head twice this week. (Sun and last night)
She loves that and would never take that away from me or her.
She loves the power it gives her. I get to sit back and enjoy.
So I guess this no sex is not that bad...
Wait until she discovers the power of withholding sex for every small transgression.....
 
javaguru said:
Wait until she discovers the power of withholding sex for every small transgression.....
quoting my Dear Departed Dad: "son, they do it to you because they CAN." :worried:
 
yonkers weights said:
Sorry for those of you that got the short end of the stick when it comes to sex long term. I guess I am one of the lucky ones!
time will tell.....we'll re-visit this thread 5 years from now.......
 
digimon7068 said:
gallipolis gals never use sex as a weapon :)
That's because they punish themselves too. The no sex before marriage gal has to be one of the horniest chicks I've ever dated. :)
 
digimon7068 said:
my wife tried to shut it down a MONTH before our wedding :lmao:

every girl wants to be a born-again virgin on her wedding night.
Yeah that is what some of my friends have done so consider yourself lucky.
 
I don’t get the whole sex after marriage stops bit. I mean…why? I think every couple should make a commitment to keeping the passion in their relationship and I can’t understand why getting married would change that.
 
It dont belive it stops as much as men say it does either.

lol

Husband lost a little of his sex drive after he decided to take a break on the steroids. I do want it more than he does. lol @ ppl thinking they know what goes on in my bedroom just because Im married.

do we not have needs too? Why would we just stop wanting sex unless we were not particularly attracted to our husbands anymore?
 
nefertiti said:
I don’t get the whole sex after marriage stops bit. I mean…why? I think every couple should make a commitment to keeping the passion in their relationship and I can’t understand why getting married would change that.

it didn't for me :) honestly? at the risk of being called a traitor. . .if your sex life isn't as good after you get married. . .IT'S THE DOOD'S FAULT!!

women generally tend to respond in a positive manner to romance. . .that's how you got in their pants before you got married. . .wtf makes you think you can stop after you get a ring on her finger??!! yeah. . .there's a little bit of work involved. . .but any successful relationship (sexual or otherwise) takes work. . .besides, the payoff makes all the work worth while.

also. . .most relationships begin with the man pursuing the woman. . .newsflash. . .you can't stop pursuing just because you got married. . .once again. . .women generally expect to be pursued. . .it's exciting. . .and excitement produces heat.

bottomline?? don't get lazy!!
 
cindylou said:
It dont belive it stops as much as men say it does either.

lol

Husband lost a little of his sex drive after he decided to take a break on the steroids. I do want it more than he does. lol @ ppl thinking they know what goes on in my bedroom just because Im married.

[do we not have needs too? Why would we just stop wanting sex unless we were not particularly attracted to our husbands anymore?


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Couples living together report having sex 146 times per year.

Married couples make love 98 times per year.

Single folks are having sex the least at 49 times a year.


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More than a fifth (22%) choose their peers rather than having sex with a partner (19%), while a further 10% prefer to either play sport or go shopping."
 
digimon7068 said:
it didn't for me :) honestly? at the risk of being called a traitor. . .if your sex life isn't as good after you get married. . .IT'S THE DOOD'S FAULT!!

women generally tend to respond in a positive manner to romance. . .that's how you got in their pants before you got married. . .wtf makes you think you can stop after you get a ring on her finger??!! yeah. . .there's a little bit of work involved. . .but any successful relationship (sexual or otherwise) takes work. . .besides, the payoff makes all the work worth while.

also. . .most relationships begin with the man pursuing the woman. . .newsflash. . .you can't stop pursuing just because you got married. . .once again. . .women generally expect to be pursued. . .it's exciting. . .and excitement produces heat.

bottomline?? don't get lazy!!


Well that's kinda what I was thinking...because why would a woman stop wanting sex unless it stopped being good? It's fun, it feels really good, not to mention it's a great de-stresser (heh). But that's her fault too for not communicating that, if it's a quality issue.
 
jerkbox said:
woman gets lazy....man gets bored....sex ceases.

I was thinking it was the other way around. :whatever:

I'm not really qualified to talk on the subject...my longest relationship was two years, so all I can say is what I think I'd do...but I'm damn near positive I'd never settle for a sexless relationship. Which isn't to say I'd leave, but I'd certainly do whatever it took to correct the problem and get the spark back.
 
it's a 2 way street obviously....but I will say that a lot of women aren't as good in bed as they probably think they are.....and most men are probably horrible in bed :lmao:
 
jerkbox said:
woman gets lazy....man gets bored....sex ceases.

man gets lazy. . .stops pursuing/romancing. . .sex life takes a nose dive.

my wife and i have 3 kids. . .7 y/o twin girls and a 20 month old boy. . .i have a thriving practice and i work pretty much 7 days a week. . .she has a teaching degree and subs 3 or so days a week on top of being super-mom. . .my point?? we're busier than hell! so. . .no. . .she doesn't come home to a hot tub with a bunch of rose petals floating on it very often. . .besides, she's much more impressed with simple gestures of kindness and the occassional date here and there. . .but i keep the pressure on her constantly (notes, texts, e-mails, etc.). . .i still find her incredibly desireable and i remind her every day. . .it works. . .we're married 15 years on 06/27 and we probably average 3-4 times a week over the course of a year. . .it's still incredibly exciting too.
 
I think what happens is when you get married or live with the person you see each other everyday so its not as exciting anymore, your life gets very busy, plus if someone starts to put weight on you arent turned on as much anymore. I think the last one is what happens most.

Yonkers - Everyone starting out says the same things that you're saying and then 3-4 years later things change, people change. Hopefully that dosent happen to you, but from what I've seen and hear, it happens all too often.
 
jerkbox said:
it's a 2 way street obviously....but I will say that a lot of women aren't as good in bed as they probably think they are.....and most men are probably horrible in bed :lmao:


lol...quite true.
 
jerkbox said:
it's a 2 way street obviously....but I will say that a lot of women aren't as good in bed as they probably think they are.....and most men are probably horrible in bed :lmao:

i'm like pete rose. . .not the most gifted athlete, but what i lack in god-given talent, i make up for with tenacity and hustle :lmao:
 
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