I understand that. Because I initially was like, whoah. We can't spank our kids now? Then, I saw the photos. It's conflicting, because we want to keep our freedom to raise our kids as we see fit. So I had the same reaction but then I felt like a hypocrite. If a woman had those marks on her we'd know for sure it was abuse. It would be against the law for me to leave marks on another adult like that. It would be assault. Kids can't pick who their parents are, and do not have the freedom to leave. Plus, kids that age are so much smaller than we are.