Ok guys, this is coming from a woman. I have tried it all, KY jelly babyoil...my own juices ...everything, the best thing that I have came across is Astroglide. I have never loved anal sex as much as I do now.
You put the tip in...easy...let her glide it in, and u pump a little at a time, pushing the penis in farter every time. Watch her face because you will be able to tell that way, if she is enjoying it. By the time the astroglide gets where it is supposed to go, she will be erotically pleased. I wanted him to go farther inside me. Good luck!!! I hope this helps