NEED ADVICE.Hell is about to break loose HELP

[Phiba Optik]

Phiba

I was with my wife for 12 years marries six. We have two small children together. Yeah my trust is shatter. I thought once I started
Dating again that I would
Be okay but I've been dating a great girl
For about 5 months and I just don't ever want to get married again and even tho she's nothing like my x wife. I still don't know if I can trust her in the future.

My wife used to tell me that she judged every other man by me...
If Jason wouldn't do
It then that guy isn't any good. They she goes and and cheats
On me with two of her former students dad. This guy cheated on his first wife and has a live in girlfriend. Sorry to digress so
Much of your topic

No man it's alright. I have to find someplace to vent. All my friends and colleagues fuck all day and don't get tied up to nobody (includes the men and women) so I can't even ask for their advice. Thank you for letting me know. Don't take this wrong, but it makes me feel less victimized when I know that I am not the only one that was fucked over. How did you deal with it brother? I mean I would go insane. Again thank you man for you responses

 

[needtogetaas]

you need to keep pretending you know nothing man. Then do everything in your power to meet as many of her girl friends as you can and smash all their pussies to shit. Her friends are all dying to jump on your dick man trust me that is how all woman are lmao. What ever you do do not let it get you down.. I know exactly how you feel right now times 1000k my friend. When your heart is broken it can hurt. Choice to let it go and have some fun with it.. Its the best you can do. `

 

[Straightshot]

I feel ya man to, Keep your head up and keep kicking ass in the gym and school, dont let her take anything else away from you. It sucks it really does but just keep on keeping on it will get easier. I found out in Feb that my wife of 4 1/2 years was having and affair and has been for 4 months, bitches lie thats all there is to it. I am like you and i'm a softy when it comes to women, I let her tell me it was over and I believed it a month later shit it the fan again... same guy that bastard needs run over, has a wife and 2 kids. We have no kids, and well bitches lie thats all I can say about it ( i'm still in the bitter stage if ya couldnt tell) I do like the idea of banging all of her friends like people have suggested.

 

[stevesmi]

you have no business being in a commited relationship at your age. you are still in college. have fun and date around. you should be dating 3 or 4 chicks at one time in your spare time and focusing on finishing your education.

once you establish yourself in life and save up money, have a house, and a career/business in your 30's or 40's you can worry about getting married.. in 10 years you will look back and laugh at yourself for crying over this slut and wonder how you could of ever dated her in the first place. i guarantee she will have 3 kids by 3 different fathers..

in the mean time don't dump her and don't mention shit UNLESS you live with her then yeah you both need to go separate ways. good lord if you are living with her this is a huge blunder of mega proportions, you should never live with a girl if you are as young as you are cause you need to have the option of just breaking up and not being homeless or vice versa. if this is the case then start looking for another place NOW and go put down a deposit and then get a friend to help you pickup the UHAUL and move out this weekend. tell her straight up you were under the impression you were in an exclusive relationship and she hasn't been faithful so you are gonna move on. thats it.

but if you don't live together and can keep her around start treating her the way she is treating you.. ignore her calls/texts.. and go have fun with other chicks the same way. if she wants to go out and stuff then have fun with her but don't take things seriously. she is actually doing what she should be doing and that is not commiting while young and she considers your relationship a joke and finds it okay to party with other guys and flirt. if a girl is gonna seek attention from other men then that is automatically a no-no for someone you want to have an exclusive relationship with. so you should do the same.

 

[kc17]

Dump that Hoe

 

[nefertiti]

Sketchy and really dishonest, but not an uncommon situation for people who go into college maintaining their high school relationship.

College is the place you explore your personal boundaries to figure out what kind of person you are going to be. It's impossible to do that if you are still bound by something from your high school years, and inevitably, 999 times out of 1000 either one or both are going to do that exploration behind the other persons back, or one or both will grow to resent the other person.

I fully support people staying single at least the first couple of years of college till they get some of that out of their systems. Even longer, for most people, though I know that's not always realistic. I think it's good to have the freedom to choose the direction your life is going to go, the place you are going to start your career, etc without having to make sacrifices for another person that early in life. Those years should be about you, your personal growth, and having the freedom to make choices based on what YOU want for your life. Then you open yourself up to someone who's on a similar track.

I'm sorry you are going through this, it must hurt like hell, and it sucks when people you love don't give to you what you give to them...but at least you found out so you won't waste any more time on someone who isn't committed on an equal level.

 

[stevesmi]

^^^ exactly.

the cold hard reality after people graduate and then get a job 1000 miles away and have to break up

it hurts him now, but it will hurt 100X worse in another couple years when his company makes him move to Seattle for his promotion and his gf lives in NY.

 

[nangiggles]

Not all women are saints but not all are whores either, hang in there, dump her and take your time before you even seriously date another girl again

 

[EarthRider]

i would just tell her you're going to move on and do it. i wouldn't stay with a girl i couldn't trust. it seems silly to me that she wouldn't just tell you what she is up to. that tells me she has bad intentions.

 

[oxymoron]

So have u heard from her or has she tried to email and ask what's going on?
Stay strong and just tell her its done because ur not interested anymore. Don't get into all this sneaking bullshit with her.


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