My two cents to the BS spewed by so many.

[stilleto]

so no-name alters or cowards don't come in and start throwing around rumors/bullshit. the point of the board is to be an uncensored place where people with testicles can come and say what MOST EF members say in PMs and behind other people's backs.

you feel that things said about people should be said to everyone, for everyone to see, judge, and believe, and not said only in a private conversation?

This assumes that the factor of someone being discussed is a given- that part isn't the subject of what is morally correct because plenty should not be discussed at all of course.

but why is it better to air your dirty laundry out for everyone? I dont understand that part.
i think for you in particular, you probably don't really have any dirty laundry or close relationships/friendships, so hearing other peoples shit is nothing but entertainment and you have no risks (no glass house) but is that really what entertains you?
You're very smart KB- and i know you're interested in a lot of cerebral topics other than gossip that is probably barely true.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

why is it for members only? I mean- do you know why you have to register to view it?
you don't use pm's here?

btw, i know its not your board- i'm not criticizing you for posting there- i'm just curious about why its not public.

The must register was to prevent people from posting as random guest to track IPs and alters I guess. I do not agree with random alter posting up and trash talking peeps. I never agread with it here and do not agree with it there if you have some shit to say about someone at least have the balls to say it as yourself. Correct I don't run it and as for managment come on lets be serious what can you expect from a board that is spoof spin off. There is much I find funny on there have you seen the Needto consultation banners? Seriously that right there is some funny stuff. Also BRR stepping out of his admin shoes over there pretty entertaining. Some threads and what not I do not agree with or care for the subject matter so I do the same thing as I do over here on threads like that I ignore them.

 

[needtogetaas]

why is it for members only? I mean- do you know why you have to register to view it?
you don't use pm's here?

btw, i know its not your board- i'm not criticizing you for posting there- i'm just curious about why its not public.

edit- my post to you sounds bitchy and its not what I meant to sound like. i've seen others say things about posting out in the open instead of behind backs, but i bet everyone that says it has used pm's so what's the difference between that and having it said out in the open for everyone to read and believe?

it is register only so people cant go there and post under a gest and just say what ever they want and not hove the balls to back it up thats why.good reason no?so yes it is public to who ever wants to sing up as a lagedamit person and parsiapate.dos that awnser youre quastoin.I think it did.







thank you thank you. next.

 

[Quadsweeps Sister]

I am posting this here as well as the other board where most of this shit started.........I have to shoulder some of this blame as I used Elite in the past as a place to vent my frustration at a time when she and I were not in a good place.

I don't usually post up much about personal things here on an Internet board, but I will reply here to the above statement...because I thought about a similar situtation I endured here. It is difficult when you and your partner are both posting or subscribed to a board where grievances are aired. In moments of anger when two people aren't able to communicate with each other - they communicate their hatred, remorse, sadness, bitterness and hope for understanding in a place such as this. The other person sees/reads and replies or responds in some manner, usually negative.

In my case, no good came of it and while to any and all here on the board it was virtually invisible; while to the two people involved it was very vivid and real. It sounds as though the use of the board for whatever reasons produced negative results for you as well. Be careful what you post here is all I can say.

 

[Dial_tone]

I never knew who malandrina, jujubes or freddy krueger were until the coming out post. It's amazing how much shit I miss around here. I'm starting to think there are hidden threads on here only white people can read.

 

[stilleto]

The must register was to prevent people from posting as random guest to track IPs and alters I guess. I do not agree with random alter posting up and trash talking peeps. I never agread with it here and do not agree with it there if you have some shit to say about someone at least have the balls to say it as yourself. Correct I don't run it and as for managment come on lets be serious what can you expect from a board that is spoof spin off. There is much I find funny on there have you seen the Needto consultation banners? Seriously that right there is some funny stuff. Also BRR stepping out of his admin shoes over there pretty entertaining. Some threads and what not I do not agree with or care for the subject matter so I do the same thing as I do over here on threads like that I ignore them.

thats cool.
yes, i've seen the banner.

 

[wootoom]

thats cool.
yes, i've seen the banner.

agreed

 

[KillahBee]

you feel that things said about people should be said to everyone, for everyone to see, judge, and believe, and not said only in a private conversation?

This assumes that the factor of someone being discussed is a given- that part isn't the subject of what is morally correct because plenty should not be discussed at all of course.

but why is it better to air your dirty laundry out for everyone? I dont understand that part.
i think for you in particular, you probably don't really have any dirty laundry or close relationships/friendships, so hearing other peoples shit is nothing but entertainment and you have no risks (no glass house) but is that really what entertains you?
You're very smart KB- and i know you're interested in a lot of cerebral topics other than gossip that is probably barely true.

When person A talks poorly about person B behind their back but acts like a friend to person B's face - yes, they deserve to be outted.

Simple as that. Most people don't see the world the way I do so they trust other people and get hurt. The liars and cowards and very immature and insecure people need to be outted, as they do not have the respect, maturity or strength to be honest about themselves to others that they interact with. Simple as that. No rebuttal needed.

And calling it gossip is not a very good tactic. Several people have already been outted as liars - several that are in a position of 'authority' around here. And that is a VERY good thing.

Let's not take over BD's thread, please.

 

[needtogetaas]

you feel that things said about people should be said to everyone, for everyone to see, judge, and believe, and not said only in a private conversation?

This assumes that the factor of someone being discussed is a given- that part isn't the subject of what is morally correct because plenty should not be discussed at all of course.

but why is it better to air your dirty laundry out for everyone? I dont understand that part.
i think for you in particular, you probably don't really have any dirty laundry or close relationships/friendships, so hearing other peoples shit is nothing but entertainment and you have no risks (no glass house) but is that really what entertains you?
You're very smart KB- and i know you're interested in a lot of cerebral topics other than gossip that is probably barely true.

and let me allso say that yes there is gosip there some people are talked about there but that makes up 1% of the threads and post there.I did the math.there is over 7000 post and 600 threads not inclooding the ones that have bin deleeted.out of all thous post and threads about 10-20 are about people.you do tha math.thats like saying ef is a food and diet board only.haaaaa pritty stupid coment dont you think.

 

[juiceddreadlocks]

She brought it on herself. She should have STFU and stopped talking shit. You come here and start personally calling people out about stuff when you vented it and put it on a public discussion board? Dont come act like she didnt post nastiness and fuel the fire. There's a difference between not being a sheep and trying to start shit. Remember the trhead she started about ''who is on her shit list?"