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My Tshirt guy

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Wants to be more part of my life. He wants to meet my boys, come over and hang out.

Until now I've kept him very separate. I'm not sure how to go about this cause I've never had my boys meet a man. And then there are the other issues...
 
He's an excellent role model. Very responsible, hard worker, and he's respectful.

We've been seeing each other for 6 months, he has no kids.

The other issues are that my life is complicated right now. I have some medical problems I gotta work out, my friends are mostly wilder than he is, I live in a horrible place and I'm almost embarrassed to bring him home. My ex still a little crazy, but backing off...slowly.
 
Don't be such a douche. Your boys are old enough to know you date, and maybe they want to meet him too. Boy's do like having a father figure in their lives, ya know.
 
Don't be such a douche. Your boys are old enough to know you date, and maybe they want to meet him too. Boy's do like having a father figure in their lives, ya know.

They know I've been dating, they know all about him and yea, they want to meet him. The down side is their father is very much involved in their life and is not above screwing with their heads. Especially if he knew I was introducing the boys to another man.
 
They know I've been dating, they know all about him and yea, they want to meet him. The down side is their father is very much involved in their life and is not above screwing with their heads. Especially if he knew I was introducing the boys to another man.

They're teenagers, right? They can figure it out and make a decision.
 
They know I've been dating, they know all about him and yea, they want to meet him. The down side is their father is very much involved in their life and is not above screwing with their heads. Especially if he knew I was introducing the boys to another man.
does the ex have a lady? has he introduced the kids to one?
 
I don't now. I learned my lesson with him. And he is big and not above violence. He's backing off now because I call the cops on him at the drop of a hat.

Sounds like a real winner. You definitely do need another/better dude around your boys.
 
Sounds like a real winner. You definitely do need another/better dude around your boys.

I have one teenager and one a little younger. The problem is that thief dad makes them feel guilty if they like another man. My ex is a very manipulative bitch.


You're right thou, a good male example can't hurt.
 
I have one teenager and one a little younger. The problem is that thief dad makes them feel guilty if they like another man. My ex is a very manipulative bitch.


You're right thou, a good male example can't hurt.

Play a little dirty. Have blue shirt do something with the boys that will instantly win them over.
 
Football or go-carts for sure.

Thing is...I feel bad for Tshirt guy even having to deal with this crap. He's a really good guy. Its been a little difficult to explain to him why he can't come around.
 
What a fucking mess yet again

I know. If the ex would get hit by a bus, life would be a little less messy. But god doesn't like me that much. So piece by piece I am fixing things.

I got the car part taken care of. The job I want is in the works and with that comes more education because it's at a teaching hospital. I'm focusing on a place to live now.

This is why keep the Tshirt away. But now it's bothering him.
 
because of this.. i say no.. and too bad he's pressing it, now you need to reduce the relationship..

I can't disagree with you...

I know that my life is not stable right now. Every corner of it is shaken up and what I have to deal with is probably more than what a lot of men would want to handle. I'm not lookin for him to save me, I'm not asking him to father my boys, I just would like someone who can stand by me a little.

He said that he gets that his place is my temporary escape from my every day stuff, but if we are gonna move forward he needs to be a part of my life.
 
Our issues aside, I'm sorry you had to experience an abuser! Let him meet your kids if not only for one day of fun and see how you both feel after.

Life gets weird after being abused!
 
Our issues aside, I'm sorry you had to experience an abuser! Let him meet your kids if not only for one day of fun and see how you both feel after.

Life gets weird after being abused!

nice sentiment :rose:


now it's time to get focused back on your issues
 
Our issues aside, I'm sorry you had to experience an abuser! Let him meet your kids if not only for one day of fun and see how you both feel after.

Life gets weird after being abused!

I really appreciate that, Blue.

I was with my ex for nearly 17 years, that's just about half my life. Being alone was weird and scary, but I'm so much happier now. Lol despite every complication I have to deal with.

I like your advice and I just might take it.

:rose:
 
V why you doing all this shit lmao it don't bother me at all ima be divorced soon and you can come get what you really want otay buttwheat

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V why you doing all this shit lmao it don't bother me at all ima be divorced soon and you can come get what you really want otay buttwheat

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I'm just trying to make a future for myself and my boys.

I'll be honest. If it weren't for your encouragement, I never would have done it.
 
I'm just trying to make a future for myself and my boys.

I'll be honest. If it weren't for your encouragement, I never would have done it.

I'll still kill your ex if you want me to. You deserve a good man, and so do the boys, although Blue Shirt ain't Beezy, if he treats you right then by all means give the ngr a chance. I want you to be happy, cause you're a great human being and you been through hell. Love ya Baby, always will. Tell that ngr I'm always a phone call away if he gets out of line.
 
They know I've been dating, they know all about him and yea, they want to meet him. The down side is their father is very much involved in their life and is not above screwing with their heads. Especially if he knew I was introducing the boys to another man.


Bring them to the motel where you bang this guy and tell them to wait in the bathroom ,when you are finished fucking call them in to say hai ! :artist:
 
He's an excellent role model. Very responsible, hard worker, and he's respectful.

We've been seeing each other for 6 months, he has no kids.

The other issues are that my life is complicated right now. I have some medical problems I gotta work out, my friends are mostly wilder than he is, I live in a horrible place and I'm almost embarrassed to bring him home. My ex still a little crazy, but backing off...slowly.

T-shirt dude is gonna leave a patch of rubber 30 yards long getting the fuck outta there.
 
Whata fucking mess
 
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