Cali try eharmony. There is a ton of really good questions that you send each potential person, questions that are really good that I should have asked a couple other people and the men on there (usually) are (usually) legit single men looking for a serious long term relationship that is actually going somewhere.
However, online dating is way riskier than real life dating. You really have to be able to listen to your intuition. You get more than one heavy rock feeling in the pit of your stomach you gotta be able to not ignore that for the sake of finding someone.
Cali, can I ask you something? You dated anyone since the last time we spoke