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My girl won't give me head

Um, pushing her head down?? I'm not going to reply to that one.

To me, sexual compatibility is important. Have you talked about it with her? Probably not. I say, if she is worth more than the act itself - then go without. If not, then find a new girl.
 
Ya, it really sucks. Some think giving head is beneath them. Something only a whore or slut would do. I think it is all good.
 
Don't push her head down! I would say no kitty licking for her and if she still won't...find a new girl!
 
lol @ pushing her head down... Bro, you have watched too many movies, that is something you should NEVER DO (if you want to get some, that is)... if anything, you have to push her head up when is time to get into more serious things...

as said, talk about with her in a non-sexual environment (like when having dinner)... if it is not her thing, well, assess how important it is for you (more that the girl herself???). If yes, dump her...
 
a) how old are you?

b) if you are above the age of 18 then dump her

c) have you asked her what her deal is?

d) she probably sucks at it anyway (excuse the pun)
 
KillahBee said:
a) how old are you?

b) if you are above the age of 18 then dump her

c) have you asked her what her deal is?

d) she probably sucks at it anyway (excuse the pun)


I am 25

I asked her and she said she dowsn't do that..... :worried:

great girl, really hot but damn..... what to do
 
fergie said:
I am 25

I asked her and she said she dowsn't do that..... :worried:

great girl, really hot but damn..... what to do


25?!?!?! fuck it then bro, bounce. it seems like a trivial thing to ditch a girl for but a) blowjobs are one of the cornerstones of relationships and b) there are other, deeper issues here as well. she should want to please you. she is also exhibiting prude-like behavior, which never gets better.
 
i don't get why all girls don't give head... in a sense it's like sucking on a giant finger haha. IMO it's grosser for a guy to go down on something that's always wet.. I actually think going down on certain girls is fun so i don't mind that. The mean thing about girls like that is once in a blue moon they'll do it for no reason at all and get you all excited thinking it's going to happen more often if you ask.... but it doesn't :(
maybe she's afraid you'll cum in her mouth on purpose or she's had bad previous experiences.. honestly just talk to her about it but don't come off like you're trying to push it on her.
 
NEW GIRL Thats an understatment.

Psycho bitch. If a girl does not want to swallow....i put my pants on and leave...period. No explanation. I just say "i see you dont care for me and all i am is a piece of meat". That ussualy gets to them.....the funny part is i actually mean it about 45%.lol.....i feel like the girl does not care about me and my pleasure and satisfying me and making me happy. When i see a girl is going to swallow....and even gargle it up...and savor the taste...thats when i feel a nice and warm feeling inside.

To me not swallowing is very direspectfull. I dont accept it.

I like to suck the kitty dry..and i expect the same.
 
Some girls just don't go down. Most likely stems from her view of 'dirty' sex. I have a friend or two that just about gag when the topic turns to me blowing my man. I'd have a serious talk with her about what her boundaries are in the bedroom - if head is a no-go then I'm sure there are other things she's not about to do either.

If you are emotionally attached... you may try to help coax her out of her shell. But it will take a while and you have to be willing to go without head for a while.

Sex and sexual compatibility is a major predictor of success in a relationship - so if blow jobs are important to you, I agree it's time to find a new girl.
 
That deserves a nut in the eye. BJ's are cornerstones to a relationship. It is a must and they must be good. Girls have been dumped due to bad fallatio. That is all.
 
May be your girl likes to lick kitty then? If she is as hot as you say... Use this to your advantage. Maybe she has a friend this does like to give head... maybe you, your girl and her friend could all um... please each other. "Then we all switch places when I ring the bell". And whamo there is a first time for everything. Baby steps are the key.

You might make sure you trim and wash real well. :)

If that doesn't work ditch her and keep the friend.

If you ain't getting' it now, no need and marring her, an eternity of no BJ's.

“If they don’t suck cock … they don’t get a rock”
 
pintoca said:
LMAO @ BJs being cornerstones of relationship... man, that was good
no shit :rolleyes:
 
KillahBee said:
25?!?!?! fuck it then bro, bounce. it seems like a trivial thing to ditch a girl for but a) blowjobs are one of the cornerstones of relationships and b) there are other, deeper issues here as well. she should want to please you. she is also exhibiting prude-like behavior, which never gets better.
amen to this gentleman. a man needs constant head in order to keep his real head together. i mean u can only fuck so much, sometimes a long day requires a blowjob. plus sex is much better with good foreplay. i don't know fergie. be open with her or let her go. unless you dont care, i need head. my best friend has been with a girl for 3 years who will not give head and does not let him fuck her from behind. now this allows her to control him in the relationship because she knows he will do what she lets him. bad situation imo, but yours is fixable if you step up now
 
fergie said:
agreed, it has always worked in the past

That is just repulsive to a girl, trust me...I was the same way. I didnt want to go down on no man and then my hubby came along. He took his time with me to make me comfy with him and throgh the time I did it, first with some teeth, but the guidence was right there...My pointe is - if you care for the girl, give her some time and make her feel real loose and relaxed with you, guide her and show u that u care...
I still dont understand why is BJ such a big deal to guys
 
The Terminator said:
Because it reels REALLY good :D :p

Yes, I beleive that, but dont know if thats a good enough reason to dump a girl for, maybe she just dont feel comfy with the partner at the beggining of a relationship
 
concordsize said:
If my girl said no to a bj i would honestly take it personal.


dont u think it all depends on how long have u been with a girl? I dont know, I grew up a bit different, here at the States I hear that its a normal thing to do on a first date, but for me that was not that common. Dont think I dont do it for my man, when I was pregnant and didnt feel like doing it, he was getting what he wanted...
 
k I'm gonna try pushing her head down again tommorow and if she doesn't then I'm gonna talk to her about it and if she doesn't I'm gonna go find a new girl
 
foreigngirl said:
dont u think it all depends on how long have u been with a girl? I dont know, I grew up a bit different, here at the States I hear that its a normal thing to do on a first date, but for me that was not that common. Dont think I dont do it for my man, when I was pregnant and didnt feel like doing it, he was getting what he wanted...

No im talking about after a sexual relationship has already been established. First date would be nice though :)

lmao on pushing her head down. Ive tried that a few times and all i got a big resistance pushing back on my hand.
 
concordsize said:
No im talking about after a sexual relationship has already been established. First date would be nice though :)

lmao on pushing her head down. Ive tried that a few times and all i got a big resistance pushing back on my hand.

well, then I'm all the way behind ya, thats wrong what she was doing
 
Gymgurl said:
Don't push her head down! I would say no kitty licking for her and if she still won't...find a new girl!

perfect response
 
Honestly I say dump her - You should want/need to have a contact with your partner - Thank god mine loves to do them almost daily =)
 
wouldn't that be weird if she licked your asshole instead of giving you a blowjob? I'd be mad/confused. I've never had a girl lick my asshole before but i hear good things hahaha ask her to do that. if she's that much of a prude about giving head go out and buy those flavored condoms. i know it doesn't feel the same but maybe she'll get used to it and open up more
 
If the compatibility isnt there why bother, she would be better off with some guy that doesn't like sex....If she doesn't do that now, isn't into it then she will probably never be....
 
fergie said:
she doesn't like that either.... :worried:


Bro co'mon the writing on the wall is screaming at you, this chick doesnt like SEX she is ONLY going through the motions because she feels she has too.

She is the type that after she gets Married she shuts the pussy down and the poor SOB that ends up with her will be lucky to get laid a couple times a year OR you'll get some shit like "Im heading to bed if you want sex come get it over with so i can take a bath and go to sleep".

Im sorry i do not believe someone can have a healthy fulfilling sex life and not be into oral sex!

Dump her she has ISSUES!
 
fergie said:
I've tried everything..... even pushing her head down but she resists dammit, what do I have to do


BAHAHAHAH "pushing her head down" ..there's a signal.

Wash that wanker and explain your needs "verbally"

If that doesn't work try Jewlery ! Works everytime.






:p :p :p
 
Dekaxx said:
Bro co'mon the writing on the wall is screaming at you, this chick doesnt like SEX she is ONLY going through the motions because she feels she has too.

She is the type that after she gets Married she shuts the pussy down and the poor SOB that ends up with her will be lucky to get laid a couple times a year OR you'll get some shit like "Im heading to bed if you want sex come get it over with so i can take a bath and go to sleep".

Im sorry i do not believe someone can have a healthy fulfilling sex life and not be into oral sex!

Dump her she has ISSUES!

I dont think so.... she loves sex but its just the whole oral thing she doesn't like, even so that is still unacceptable.

time for a new girl I think
 
fergie said:
I dont think so.... she loves sex but its just the whole oral thing she doesn't like, even so that is still unacceptable.

time for a new girl I think
ust wondering, does she like her Kitty licked. I had a similar experience with a G.F. I was 17 & she was XX. After talk & teasing & letting me try it, she loved it. Then I got her to try it on me. She got very good.
 
hidngod said:
ust wondering, does she like her Kitty licked. I had a similar experience with a G.F. I was 17 & she was XX. After talk & teasing & letting me try it, she loved it. Then I got her to try it on me. She got very good.

nope she dont like that either, maybe she'd change in time but I'm not really the patient type but she's a cool chik, what to do what to do.....
 
fergie said:
nope she dont like that either, maybe she'd change in time but I'm not really the patient type but she's a cool chik, what to do what to do.....
Sorry Bro, but it's time to move on then. If you don't want to train her, & she don't wanna expand her horizon's, the whole issue will develope into a breaking point. It's not like you're asking her to have sex with her sis or something weird like that.
 
hamstershaver said:
i dont see whats wrong with pushing her head down

ditto gotta be aggressive (now I'm not talking about literally giving her whiplash but a friendly "nudge" can be in order haha)

ya my girl doesn't swallow all the time it pisses me off
 
TheOak84 said:
donkey punch...

the only way

Dude I literally pissed my pants when I read "Donkey Punch" I am still laughing my ass of as I type..F-in Donkey punch. Thats friggin great.

Heres the deal though - new chick. I think girls either like it ..or you ...enough to perform the blessed act of mouth massage ..or they don't. I myself could not go any amount of time without it so.....new chick.
Not fair to you to live without....not fair to her to do something she doesn't want to do...especially not fair for her to take a "donkey punch"

I am still laughing at " Donkey Punch"
 
230lbs said:
Dude I literally pissed my pants when I read "Donkey Punch" I am still laughing my ass of as I type..F-in Donkey punch. Thats friggin great.

Heres the deal though - new chick. I think girls either like it ..or you ...enough to perform the blessed act of mouth massage ..or they don't. I myself could not go any amount of time without it so.....new chick.
Not fair to you to live without....not fair to her to do something she doesn't want to do...especially not fair for her to take a "donkey punch"

I am still laughing at " Donkey Punch"

OK, excuse my naivette,, but WTF is a donkey punch?
 
so I guess I have to explain this..... its when your doing your chik up the ass, then you punch her in the back of the head so she tenses up - thats a donkey punch.
 
fergie said:
so I guess I have to explain this..... its when your doing your chik up the ass, then you punch her in the back of the head so she tenses up - thats a donkey punch.
See, 93 yrs old :supercool & I'm still larnin'
 
Go out for dinner some night. Afterwards drive into a bad neighborhood, pull over and tell her to blow you, or get out.

jk
 
hey has she even given head before?

or does she not wanna suck urs only cause in that case fuckin dump her ass right away.
 
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